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HUNGRY asked in Social SciencePsychology · 8 years ago

My gf controls my life. Please help?

So I got a friend pregnant (we weren't dating) we were both young and dumb. I decided to be a man about and stay with her, I work 2 jobs and I don't get to spend a single dollar since we never have money cause she's always spending it. She complains that she wants to move out of my parents but she don't help me save so we could move out. Pressures me to give her an engangement ring. I do love her and our daughter but I just can't continue not being able to talk to my friends and go out even to the gym without her. She's always checking up my phone even tho I haven't ever cheated on her she blames her insecurity because she found some old Facebook messages with plenty of girls BEFORE we got together when we were just friends.. What should I do ?

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  • 8 years ago
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    You have to talk to her! Don't let her use you like that. Ask her to get a job too and control your money (not too much) but give her a certain amount like allowance and tell her you would like to save up for a place to live. Tell her you feel stressed out and pressured. Talk to her .

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Be the man and tell ner how it is. Tell her she needs to stop worrying because you love her and your daugter. Just somthing manly but sweet

  • 8 years ago

    Remember, you are nobodys b****. you are equals. if she doesnt treat you like one then you need to break up with her.

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