I love her so much but she is so unreasonable I need my cars!!!?

Make it obvious that you aren't going to stop for something that she thinks is a waste if she can't stop what you think is a waste.

You will be sharing the same budget, and that means you have to talk it out. She doesn't get to do whatever she wants, and you don't get to do whatever you want. You both need to talk it out.

And if you honestly can't agree on this, don't you DARE go through with it.

Never picture yourself married to a different person than you are with RIGHT NOW. And she shouldn't do the same. Too many men and women believe that once the wedding happens their partner will magically change into their perfect person. NO NO NO. They stay exactly the same. You will be the same and she will be the same.

She will be like this forever, and YOU are going to be like you forever. If NOTHING changed, would you still go through with it? If this NEVER changed(because it won't) would you marry her? If you wouldn't then you DON'T.

Do not think you can change the person. They stay as they are. If she can't accept all of you, she never will, and if you can't accept all of her, you never will.

You are marrying the SAME PERSON YOU SEE RIGHT NOW. Remember that, nobody transforms at the altar. They just have a ring on their finger now

Dont marry her. I think your passion is interesting.

This is my perfect house:

Wrap around porch, I definitely want a clothesline (I love hanging clothes outside), I want just a couple of bedrooms, two bathrooms, a comfotable sunk in living room, with a fireplace, a good size kitchen with an island to have my coffee in the morning and read the newspaper, and I want the bedrooms to be up a few stairs with a sliding doors and a deck to relax on at night and watch the stars. I always wanted a pool table so a rec room would be cool with a couple of movie style seats with a big screen tv because I love watching movies.

It's sounds like you really love this girl! But it's sounds like she is more in love with the stuff you give her and do for her than she is in love with you. With love comes sacrifice! It's obvious that you are sacrificing a lot for her dreams but she isn't willing to sacrifice for yours. It really bugs me that she expects you to spend so much time and money on her and then when it comes to you working on your cars you can't do that because "it's a waste". She needs to support you too! I think it would be a good idea to sit her down and have a talk about how you are feeling. If she doesn't understand that she is unreasonable then maybe it's time to rethink your relationship. If she is like this now there is nothing stopping her from being like this when you are married. Do you really want to live like that the rest of your life? Well anyways, good luck with everything! You deserve to have someone love you as much as you love them!

Take her pants off of her and you start wearing yours. Your a man start acting like one. Keep in mind there are two of you in this relationship.