Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.
Trending News
Anyone think he'll ever call/text again?
My male friend and I recently decided to end our friendship bc he felt I had feelings for him and he was too attracted to me. Plus it makes each of our lives very complicated. After our friendship officially ended he text me and said he was sorry and wished he could be there for me. Then later that day he gave me a hug - which we had never hugged or touched in the past. Why did he all of a sudden feel comfortable hugging me (it was almost a nature instinct)?
I'm new to the singles scene (after a long marriage) Does anyone think he'll ever call/text me again? Do guys do that after they end a complicated situation?
4 Answers
- jayneLv 58 years agoFavorite Answer
I think it's quite likely he will call or text you again, perhaps he's in denial about the nature of his true feelings for you, a "friendship" is pretty 'safe' isn't it? sometimes though, when two people are starting to go beyond the point of friendship, they may think that ending the friendship will remove the temptation that would complicate both their lives, and avoid spoiling a good friendship if things dont progress from there, by your actions, you both seem to be trying to convince yourselves that this couldn't, and shouldn't go beyond friendship, he may be able to stick by his decision, and get on with his life without you in it, if all the two of you had was a mutual attraction, then life goes on, but you say he felt you had feelings for him, so he knows how you feel, but if he has any of those feelings for you, he may not be able to deny them forever, i'm assuming you are both not 'free' to be together? so of course your first loyalties may lie somewhere else, i guess your "friendship" could have got in the way of those loyalties, and although he's trying to 'do the right thing', it probably wasn't a good idea for him to text you or give you a hug, as soon as your friendship had officially ended, but you both sound as if you're trying hard to convince yourselves it's ended, but has it really? Why didn't he stop all contact straight away, and why are you still hoping that he will call or text? it's ok saying the friendship is officially over, as long as you can both live by that decision, and each get on with your lives. Don't waste time wondering if he'll call or text again, get out and make some new friendships, instead of looking for love again, just learn to enjoy the company of guys again, without it ever being anymore than that, and learn to be 'comfortable' with it if you're on your own for a while.
Source(s): life - ?Lv 44 years ago
are women continuously like this? i keep in mind years in the past, a woman i exploit to love plenty have been given mad and informed me to no longer consult together with her ever returned, i stored calling and then i felt like a jerk so i end calling n we on no account talk returned
- 8 years ago
it depends.. Do you want him to? If so, you may want to consider making that more than known to him. If not, just relax and let it take it's course :)
- 8 years ago
i think he will do it again.because he thinks it is a good way to chose a friend even lovers.