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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 8 years ago

My wife does not reach the orgasm during intercourse? Any suggestions?

I m just posting a problem I m facing these days. Its 5 month of my marriage. We do sex on daily basis. Problem which I think in our martial relationship that my wife does not reach orgasm during the intercourse. I have told her many times to guide me so that she achieves orgasm too. She says yes to be but does not say anything during intercourse. Please suggest how to make her reach orgasm quickly....thanks

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  • 8 years ago

    Most women cannot reach orgasm through intercourse alone, so perhaps you could start there. If that's what you've been trying and it doesn't work, then you need to stimulate the clitoris during sex. Use your fingers or a vibrator (or have her use her own hands) and gently stimulate the area while having sex. This should, in turn, help her to orgasm. If it doesn't, then there may be other issues at work here (e.g., she isn't comfortable enough with you yet, etc.).

    Good luck :)

  • 8 years ago

    I am seeing a woman that is a tuff nut to crack to say the least. We are in our mid fifties. I am no novice. I would not have understood your question either before this relationship. People will assume your not doing it right or not taking your time. I have found two things that work sometimes. We enjoy having a lot of sex when we are together (five times a day). She does enjoy the sex and says it is all good, just does not come but one out of six times on average. All I can say is be open to trying different things, and communicate. We have been together about 18 months. We are compatible. Thank God I am in good shape, or I think she could be the death of me for trying. Good luck and try not to give up.

  • 8 years ago

    Maybe you should perform oral sex on her first before you start intercourse. That might help her get worked up.

  • 8 years ago

    Get her off prior to penetration...most women do not orgasm via vaginal intercourse.

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  • Damian
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    The problem may be that you want her to get there quickly, be patient, you need to be sure she's aroused so plenty of foreplay

  • 8 years ago

    could be the wrong times for her, my wife wanted sex as soon as she woke up in the morning, this was best for her, for myself this tired me out for the day, but oh well i didn't refuse her.

  • 8 years ago

    Lots of foreplay ... give her a head start.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    No worries, the guy that'll bang her soon will.

  • 8 years ago

    Fingers and lips applied before penetration.

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