What has been the aftermath when you asked a question on yahoo answers about your affair/abusive relationship?

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Often on family &relationships sections have there been folks who asked questions like "I'm with a married man/woman, will they leave their spouse and get with me?" or "I'm in a terrible relationship I dont' know what to do he beats me/cheats on me/doesn't care  about me." or even "I'm cheating on my husband/wife, what are great ways to avoid getting caught?"

While some are trolling I know, others i'm sure are dead serious.  But what happened after getting their answers from folks and they made their firm decision regarding the situation?  

So my question for those who have seeked yahoo answer guidance and then embarked on their 'situation' is what was the end result?  What happened after you asked? Did you decide to disregard folk's advice and divorced the spouse and get with the homewrecker or stayed with the spouse? Did you listen to people's advice and lose the homewrecker? (i'm assuming the majority reply to questions like this.  It's generalizing but meh, just making the question clear I suppose).

For the abused did you leave the abuser and are happy now? Did you stay and somehow a magic ending happened?

Your answers are greatly appreciated. Thanks.

l8tr g8tr · Accepted Answer

Answers I received led me to personal therapy and eventually getting away from the abuser.  It's not been an easy process or easy decision to make but now that I am out...it was the best decision I ever made.  Not just for myself, but for our child.  Our lives are BETTER.  Just better.

? · Answer

i often wonder about 'what happens next' too. Its like we only get abit of the story. It would be great if yahoo had a follow up page where people who asked questions could get back later, maybe just linked to those who answered, and update us!

? · Answer

Its not necessarily your pick best answer is you decide its right and you abide it, the best you can do its for guide what you doing or what conclusion on your mind..if you ask question be sure its aplicable to your daily life and needs,  also the answer is near to your need to hear..but answer yahoo is only opinion your the only one who decides what you want to yourlife..sharing your thought is aplicable here that's why we need the best answers...but if you read the question and you know that its troll better to not answer it..

**Llola** · Answer

I don't think most askers bother to read the advice they have been given. The best answer is awarded most often by voters.

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What has been the aftermath when you asked a question on yahoo answers about your affair/abusive relationship?

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