How do i get past this?

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I'm a bisexual male and i have been dating a girl for about 6 months now. We connect on a really great level. She is almost everything i look for in a girl. I have been hanging with her and her older sister a lot. Her sister is a paramedic and her partner/best friend is gay. He hangs out with us too. The thing is i think i've developed a crush on him. He is cute and his personality and mine fits together so perfectly. I've had so many conversations with him and im pretty sure he has no idea that i have or crush or even am into guys. He has so many qualities that i look for in a guy but i just don't know what to do with it. My girlfriend knows that i'm bi and she wants me to tell him. She wants us to be friends because they're friends and so i can have someone to relate to. But i don't want to be friends with him because i have developed this crush and i know it will be a huge mess if i was to act on these feelings that i have. I don't want to tell her that i have a crush because she wont want us hanging out anymore and i want to hang like we always do. How do i get over this guy? How do i get past a crush and move on as a friendship?

Wise Old Cat · Accepted Answer

Ha ha ha ha.  You can't.  If you are able to do that write a book about it.  It will sell millions.  The only way to get over a crush is to separate yourself from a situation and just go on with life.  Your other options is tell him how you feel and maybe he feels the same and you can go on together.  This means big changes in group dynamics though.  But, relationships are fluid, the start, they end, the come back together etc.

david s · Answer

I say go out with them both. Or just mess with the guy if you want to but keep the relationship with the girl. 

Or do both. I think going out with both of them and getting pleasure from both male and female is the best gift you could ever have. hahahah

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