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So i met a guy this weekend. He's gay but he is currently in a relationship with a girl. Its really weird to me because she is gay as well. So i asked him how do they have sex. He said that she get a strap on and tops him. I kinda of makes sense.. but its just a little weird. He's masculine and look like she is slightly tomboyish. My question is does any body else think that its a weird or should i say different? Has anyone been in a relationship like that? Is this a popular thing?

So i'm 21 years old and i live with my girlfriend of almost a year and a half. She had a doctors appointment yesterday. After the appointment she told me that she needed to talk to me. I was at work at the time so i called her. She sounded really distant and told me that we needed to talk in person. When i got home she told me that the doctors found a large mass in her breast. They think that its cancer. My girlfriend's mom past from cancer when she was 7 years old and i still have a hard time helping her get through days like christmas, and birthdays. The drew blood from her for further testing but now we are both just numb to the body. I can't lose her to cancer. I am at a lost for words. What do i do? what do i say? how can i help make her feel better? Her dad is completely freaking out. I can't imagine being in his shoes. Someone please help me. Why is life so unfair?

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So a bisexual male. I'm currently in a relationship with a girl. Its been like a year and some change. We are sexually active and that's great also. I have never cheated on her which is really great, but i kinda miss penis.. A lot! idk i think i'm really complicated when it comes to sex and my sexuality. I feel like i would rather put my penis in a vagina because to me it feels better. when it comes to sex with a guy i rather bottom because it feels great. I miss being penetrated. My question is, I'm thinking about talking to my girlfriend about getting a strap-on. How do i go about starting that conversation? She knows about my sexuality and she is ok but idk if she will be ok with being the one penetrating me. Lately she has been slowly trying to explore my bi side or should i say the anal aspect of my sex life. She kind of touches it sometimes and rubs on it a little bit. Its such a tease when she does that. How do i get her to consider it for me. I don't want to cheat on her and i never will but it would be nice to get the best of both worlds.

I'm bi sexual and a male. I have my first experience with a guy at age 18 (im 21 now) he was 2 years younger than i was but he litterally figgured me out and forced it out of me. I kinda fell in love with him. We dated for 3 months but we both were in the closet. We had sex 1 time while we were dating. Then he wanted to come out to the whole school and i told him i wasn't ready. I told him that he was the only person to know and the only reason he knew was because he threw himself at me so hard that i decided to hear him out. When i told him that i wasn't ready he threaten to out me. He tried to blackmail me into coming out with him. I lost trust in him and ended it. I graduated high and kinda reconnected with him a year later. We hung out at the mall and i took him home. When we got there he invited me in. He then tried to have sex with me and i said no. He kept saying you know you want to. And i was like i really don't. He gave me this sad sob story about him not being able to meet anyone after me and all this BS. i felt sorry for him so i had sex with him. Then he went and told his friend which i asked him not to because i don't like her. He denied it but i knew he did it so i pretended to be nice to this girl and i simply asked her, I said i know that you know about us, What do you know, and what more do you wanna know. She said that he had texted her earlier when we were at the mall saying that he was going to have sex with me. and called her right after i left and told her every single detail. I confronted him about it and he lied and denied it. I told him not to talk to her about us because i don't like her, she just gossips and announces everyone's business just like she did his when i asked her. but he told her anyways so i stopped talking to him. Now 2 years later i'm out and he is friends with my sister and he keeps asking her for my new number. For what. I said no. I told her not to give it to him. He called her one day while i was there and asked to talk to me so i talked to him and tried that sab story again and i told him to take his lonely BSing story and shove it up his *** and hung up. My sister told me i was mean to him and he doesn't deserve to be spoken to like that. I dis agree, He lost my trust the first time when he tried to munipulate me into coming out, i gave him a second chance and he lost my trust yet again, Now he wants to say that he is in love with me and he jsut wants to have one shot. Um sorry buddy.. this isn't the midnight train to georgia. Plus i'm in a relationship right now and i refuse to entertain his nonsense. am i over reacting? do you think i mean for saying that to him?

So I'm 21 years old and im a bi sexual male. I've been dating a girl for the past year or so.. She is well aware of my sexuality and she's okay with it. Our relationship has been okay except for the fact that she doesn't know how to give me space. She wants to be everywhere i am at all times. I think its because she lacks trust in me. Idk why tho i have never done anything to cause her to not trust me. SHe stop hanging out with all of her friends and have lost some of them because she always puts me before them and she expects me to do the same. She expects me to bring her with me whenever i go hang out with my friends. I don't have a problem with that as we have all hung out SO many times, But sometimes i need to be with my friends away from her. I honest am just frustrated with it and i told her that yesterday because she was upset about me spending the entire day with my mom on mothers day and not spend more than 2 hours with her. ARE YOU SERIOUS? its freaking mothers day, You are not my mother. So i voiced my opinion to her last night and i told her that i didn't know how much longer i can put up with it. She thinks that i want to break up with her so i could go date a guy and she started blaming herself saying I'm so bad that im going to lose you to a guy. I care about this girl a lot. She has been an awesome friend and i don't want her to think that there is a guy because there isn't. there is nobody. I'm just fed up. I can i get her to understand that i am leaving and its not for another guy or girl. That its for my own sanity, without breaking her fragile heart so bad. I know she's going to be hurt but i would like advice on how to make it hurt the least. Like i said i value our friendship and maybe if she can give me some space and understand that that's all that i'm asking for, maybe i'll be willing to get back with her, because besides that everything has been awesome. Anyways, PLEASE help me. Im asking the LGBT community because i get the best advice from here. More open-minded people leads to more respectable answers.

I am extremely attracted to guys with red hair. The red beard omg it just turns me on. Blondes too but not as much as gingers. Anybody else have an attraction to a certain hair color?? Tell me about it Im curious to see who else finds gingers attractive or if not who you guys find attractive.

So i know that we are in a new age where technology is taking over. Youtube has helped so many people come out and deal with day to day issues in the LGBT community. There are plenty of gay channel but which one is your Ultimate favorite. DavyWavy is mine!

I was raised in the church and I'm bisexual. I pretty much went through the bible and decided that the ultimate goal is for me to believe and live my life for Christ. I sin and so does everyone else. I'm curious to hear other people's opinion on that.

Have you ever met a guy named FABIO who isn't gay? Its kinda weird to me. I know and are friends with a few guys named fabio and their all gay. They live in 3 different cities and there are 5 of them. only 2 of them know each other but its just really weird to me. Is Fabio like the ultimate gay name? I'm bi sexual and i'm not trying to offend anyone i just think its kinda weird.

So my friends is a closeted bisexual. His very best friend is very cute and is a closeted bisexual also. They hang out all the time and are completely masculine. But they mess around all the time. His sister is a year older than him and has a crush on his best friend. She told him and asked him to hook them up. My friend doesn't want to because he doesn't want to be ******* the guy who is ******* his sister. But he has a girlfriend. Its very confusing to me but basically my friend hasn't told his best friend that his sister likes him because he doesn't want them together. but his sister thinks he did. I think he should just tell his best friend that she's into him and let him pick but he doesn't want to do it. What type of advice would you give to him as to making the best decision?

I have been dating this girl for a year now. I love her to death. I'm bisexual and she help me accept myself for who i am and i will always love her for that. Lately I have been very annoyed with her. 6 months ago i lived with my mom and step dad. My step dad and i got into a really bad altercation an i decided that it was in my best interest to move out. I was going to move in with a friend but she insisted that i come stay with her. We had only been dating for 6 months and i was not trying to be living with her yet. I thought it would be too early, and not to mention the fact that she still lived at home. Her parents doesn't care but i thought it would be awkward. I agreed to stay with her for a month until i was able to get a place. When that month was up she begged me not to go and got her mom and Little brothers and dad to convince me to stay. Me being a 20 year old still in school decided to stay so i would be able to save up some money. Well my mom and i made up but now my girlfriend is so attached to me she wont let me go anywhere alone. I get annoyed because i want to go hang with my friends but she wants to come and gets offended when i say that she cant. I mean i cant bring my girlfriend to hang with the guys. She wont even let me go to my moms house alone. I told her that i need time away from her and she doesn't understand that. She says when you're with someone you give up thing and make sacrifices for them. I told her that i was NOT sacrificing my mom or my friends for her.. Now i just get annoy with her because she is always there. She's like a shadow. If i do end up going somewhere alone which i usually do after we argue about her not wanting me to go, She will call me or text me about random stupid stuff that could wait until i get home. I have a 45 min drive from work and she calls me everyday on the way home. I don't want to talk to her on the way home. Im about to be with her for the rest of the day, Can't i just listen to my favorite CD on the way home. She doesn't get that. She thinks i should want to talk to her all the time and that drives me nuts. Now we're always fighting because i am not compromising my me time.. I care about her and besides being too attached she is a great girl. I try to hear her out and i will talk to her sometimes on te way home just to make her happy but how do i get her to understand my point of view?? Am i over reacting?? Sometimes i feel bad because she will start crying but sometime i think she cries to make me feel bad and change my mind.. What do you guys think??

So he is a close family friend. His mom has been best friends with my mom since they were 18 years old. I remember growing up with him and always hanging out. We almost look at each other as cousins. Anyways i thought he was curious from a while back. I must have been 12 and he was 10. He came to my house for like easter or something. Our parent were downstairs hanging out and we were up stairs in the room playing video games. We started wrestling and i had him in a head lock he grabbed my penis so i would let him go. It shocked me but i didn't say anything. We wrestled again and he kept doing it. Later it turned into every time i would go to his house we would always end up wrestling and something gay would happen. One time he pinned me down in missionary position and said "you're gone take this D today" of coarse it was in a joking manner but i honestly think if the opportunity comes up he would take advantage of it. Finally the last reason that i think he is curious is because last yeah i came out to my closest friends. Im bisexual. He was the first guy i told. He said he was ok with it and he didn't care. Then he asked me if i had and experiences. He wanted me to go into detail about them. It was a little weird but i didn't mind sharing so i told him. He would say ewww but then say he wanted me to keep going. I told my best very best friend who is a straight guy and he accepted me but he never asked me to go into detail about anything especially not sexual experiences. So i talked to him last night and he was jokingly saying that his GF went down on him and decided that she wanted to toss his salad.. She really didn't but it caught my attentions. So then i said that it feels really good.. and he asked me to go into more detail about how it felt. IDk but i think he's curious. He gets undressed in front of me all the time flaunting his huge penis and trying to smack me with it. idk if he will get offended if i ask.. What do you think?? Do you think he's curious? He is very masculine has a girlfriend and has sex with all these girls but if he is considering guys, i want to be the first one.. is that wrong?

There is a guy that i had been crushing on. Lets call him Acura since that's what he drives. I made moves on him one night last summer. With the help of vodka and being out in the woods i ended up making out with him. I knew he liked it but the next day he acted all weird and stuff. Eventually he came back around and we hung out and would just flirt on the low. Me and him hooked up last month for the first time and the next day again he flipped out and asked me to leave. Last night he invited me to a party that he was throwing so i went. There i met some of his friends that i have met before. There was a really cute one that i will call Levi because i liked his levis lol. I was upset with Acura but i still agreed to talk to him that night privately. He told me it was a mistake, and that its not what he wants in life and all that other bullshit. He said that i convinced him to do thing that i know we shouldn't do. Um He participated in that hook up just as much as i did. so i went back into the party and was just hanging out with the people there. Levi asked for a cig so we both went out on the back porch and smoked. that's when he threw my gaydar off to the max because he was really close to me and patting me on the shoulder. Its really hard to tell given the fact that we are all very masculine. Levi had been joking around with me all night but i really didn't catch on until we were on the back porch smoking.. He gave me his number saying that he was gonna throw a party and that i should come. Me and him have been texting since last night and acura found out today. Apparently Levi is one of Acura's best friends and Levi has already come out to Acura. Levi told Acura that he liked me and now Acura is mad at me. The thing is levi doesn't know about Acura because he is still in the closet. Acura called me a hoe. How am i a hoe when i kissed him once before we hooked up almost 11 months later. He told me to stop talking to levi But i said no because he just told me that we were a mistake and he doesn't want me in his life like that so why can't someone else have me? Do you think I was wrong for talking to his friend? I didn't know they were best friends like that. I feel like i'm just being real and he is mad that he is going to lose me to his friend. What do you think? I'm tired of being dragged back and forth because he doesn't know what he wants.

They are still people. I dont judge people by their height. Some short guys are really cute. So whats with it. Im so over it. im 5'8. i consider that to be average and i really dont care about someones height. Its just dumb.

I'm a bisexual male and i have been dating a girl for about 6 months now. We connect on a really great level. She is almost everything i look for in a girl. I have been hanging with her and her older sister a lot. Her sister is a paramedic and her partner/best friend is gay. He hangs out with us too. The thing is i think i've developed a crush on him. He is cute and his personality and mine fits together so perfectly. I've had so many conversations with him and im pretty sure he has no idea that i have or crush or even am into guys. He has so many qualities that i look for in a guy but i just don't know what to do with it. My girlfriend knows that i'm bi and she wants me to tell him. She wants us to be friends because they're friends and so i can have someone to relate to. But i don't want to be friends with him because i have developed this crush and i know it will be a huge mess if i was to act on these feelings that i have. I don't want to tell her that i have a crush because she wont want us hanging out anymore and i want to hang like we always do. How do i get over this guy? How do i get past a crush and move on as a friendship?