Am I wrong for this or am i just being real?

There is a guy that i had been crushing on. Lets call him Acura since that's what he drives. I made moves on him one night last summer. With the help of vodka and being out in the woods i ended up making out with him. I knew he liked it but the next day he acted all weird and stuff. Eventually he came back around and we hung out and would just flirt on the low. Me and him hooked up last month for the first time and the next day again he flipped out and asked me to leave. Last night he invited me to a party that he was throwing so i went. There i met some of his friends that i have met before. There was a really cute one that i will call Levi because i liked his levis lol. I was upset with Acura but i still agreed to talk to him that night privately. He told me it was a mistake, and that its not what he wants in life and all that other bullshit. He said that i convinced him to do thing that i know we shouldn't do. Um He participated in that hook up just as much as i did. so i went back into the party and was just hanging out with the people there. Levi asked for a cig so we both went out on the back porch and smoked. that's when he threw my gaydar off to the max because he was really close to me and patting me on the shoulder. Its really hard to tell given the fact that we are all very masculine. Levi had been joking around with me all night but i really didn't catch on until we were on the back porch smoking.. He gave me his number saying that he was gonna throw a party and that i should come. Me and him have been texting since last night and acura found out today. Apparently Levi is one of Acura's best friends and Levi has already come out to Acura. Levi told Acura that he liked me and now Acura is mad at me. The thing is levi doesn't know about Acura because he is still in the closet. Acura called me a hoe. How am i a hoe when i kissed him once before we hooked up almost 11 months later. He told me to stop talking to levi But i said no because he just told me that we were a mistake and he doesn't want me in his life like that so why can't someone else have me? Do you think I was wrong for talking to his friend? I didn't know they were best friends like that. I feel like i'm just being real and he is mad that he is going to lose me to his friend. What do you think? I'm tired of being dragged back and forth because he doesn't know what he wants.