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Should I break up with my girlfriend?
We have been together for 3 months, I'm 19 and she's 18.
We have reached this stage where she feels totally comfortable with me and she now acts differently.
What I mean by this, she's starting to grow independent and with that, not really showing any respect towards what I have to say.
An example, I've told her that I feel uncomfortable that she speaks about our relationship to my guy friends. I don't want to hear about our issues along the grapevine, and it shouldn't be there business.
How ever, she has given me the "deal with it" speech, the thing is, I go out of my for her, but she is accusing me for not letting her to what she wants.
I'm sitting on the fence about breaking up with her, this isn't the first time she has been acting like this, and it's gotten to me.
Even though I still love her very much, I'm unhappy, what should I do?
8 Answers
- Anonymous8 years agoFavorite Answer
if your unhappy then you need to sit her down and calmly explain to her why.
she needs to understand that you believe that what goes on behind closed doors is not to be shared with friends. if she can't respect this, or is irrational and unable to hear your point of view, then you might consider taking a break from this relationship or ending it completely.
if the relationship is no longer serving you, and you can't grow with her, then you need to be without her.
- Anonymous8 years ago
If you're unhappy and you feel as though she disrespects you, then I would say you should call it quits.. because, personally, I think that those two things are VERY important to a healthy, good relationship: making the other person happy, and respecting them and what they have to say, all the time. I never disregard what my boyfriend has to say, never.
- Anonymous8 years ago
You should tell her the exact things u are saying here.. its the only way and if she doesnt change then end it bc u need to be happy. Just tell her everything u said here and let her know how u feel, hopefully she works it out with u
Source(s): Author - AlioopLv 58 years ago
You need to sit her down, and tell her how you feel. I did that with my boyfriend, he was telling his best guy friend, all about stuff that happened between us personally, and that annoys me. So I told him, and now he doesn't do it, because he cares about me.
You just need to tell her more seriously.
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- Anonymous8 years ago
Yup.
- 8 years ago
talk to her, your problem is with her
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