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i DESPERATELY need a reason to break up with him...? BEST ANSWER 10 POINTS!!?
Ok so, I am 15 and i lied this guy for 3 years, just like him. 2 years ago we had a relationship (for 3 months) but we broke up. But after a few months we became friends again. And i started liking him again (but he never stopped liking me) and he had a relationship again. We broke up after 3 weeks.
I BROKE HIS HEART.
A few months ago we became friends again and the same thing happened. (but he never stopped loving me in these 3 years). Now we are in a relationship, and only 2 friends know. (we kept it a secret because another guy likes me and i didnt want to hurt him - that guy is his friend).
I REALLY thought i loved him, but now i realize that i dont!
I need to find a reason to break up with him without hurting his feelings. (again).
The problem is that he loves me very much and he thinks that i do too, and we don't have a reason to break up (no fights, etc).
WHAT SHOULD I DO??? :(
REMEMBER: BEST ANSWER 10 POINTS
Also, he is on the same class with me at school, so i can't lie about school!
I just need something believable! It's been 3 YEARS...! :/
16 Answers
- Anonymous8 years agoFavorite Answer
Tell him you really like him but you don't feel a special connection with him. Tell him he's a great guy but your to young to be in a serious relationship with anybody. Let him know he was a great boyfriend and you still want to be friends
- chantalLv 45 years ago
A few matters are manifestly obvious. You are a little too into your self-pity commute with continuously looking at these portraits. That needs to stop, unless you simply significantly wish to torture your self. Additionally, if you particularly do care about him and this relationship, you really have to be very sincere with him and let him understand how you suppose, the way you particularly consider. Make your determination established on his response. Its alright if he is on a civil cordial groundwork along with her, however not to be her constant pal friend. You say you do not want all the ex drama and suffering. Good, he isn't going to be last boyfriend, so get previous that concept. Its now not the drama and anguish, but the way you take care of it. Best of luck to you.
- 8 years ago
say you need to study ^^ If he doesn't believe you, make up some test, print it out, say its from coaching or some random test on the internet and stuff it up (if you purposely fail a school test you might get back results on your report) and show it to him. Say that your so upset, you need some time some space, studying for now is your priority. This way it wont hurt him so much, and sound really desperate, as if this result REALLY broke your heart. He'll understand and back away.:)
- ?Lv 78 years ago
On again, off again, on again.
The problem is that he loves me very much and he thinks that i do too, and we don't have a reason to break up (no fights, etc). Yes you do Your leading him on he thinks that i do too,
He's a friend but you don't love him Sooner or later your going to ave to tell him may as well get it over and tell him you only think of him as a friend.
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- BobLv 68 years ago
If it were the other way around, (you love him, he can't stand you), what would you want?
1. For him to fake it and stay with you?
2. For him to make up a lie to break up with you?
3. For him to tell the truth to break up with you?
Look in your heart, decide how you would want to be treated, and do that.
- 8 years ago
Just say that you're going through alot. And you need some time to think, make sure to tell him that it's you. Not him. Say you need to focus on more things like your grades and things.
Or you could set all the bullshit aside and tell him the truth. It's better to hurt someone with the truth, them make them happy with a lie. Remember that.
- 8 years ago
I would tell him that your not emotionally available for a long-term relationship right now. And that you have a lot on your plate, are extremely stressed out and think that you would better dealing with it alone for now. That way you just leave it open, to maybe a friend with benefits situation later on in your friendship.
- Anonymous8 years ago
Just tell him the truth. Its alot better than lying but i guess if you really had to just pic one of his bad habbits and leave him because you cant stand that bad habit
- 8 years ago
Te best thing to do would be to tell him truth, there's no need for more lies in this relationship.
- 8 years ago
your only 15 so just say that you broke up too much and u dont want to date anymore, just dont make fun of him or humiliate him in any way..because that way he wont be so heartless with other girls..
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