Shaipeas

ive been dating someone for a few weeks now and im realizing that im always the one who starts the conversation and the one who always makes plans on where to go out. i get that a guy has to lead but weve had sex and stuff so i know she likes me but why doesnt she bother? and shes not too busy. she is a bit unexperienced with intimacy

i went out with a girl i have a crush on and it went great but went away on a month trip. were not dating yet but i havent tried to look for someone new and tell myself ill wait for her. one part of me wants to sleep with alot of girls while im still young, the other tells me i should just get to know her more even if that means one day shell be gone. most guys i think would just want to hook up with other girls but i feel like thats pushing my own luck if that makes sense

ive been trying the no fap challenge and i think i got a hang on my whole porn "addiction" the reason i started this is so i could have more of a drive towards aproaching and meeting new girls. so far its over 1 month of no fap and i have noticed i am alot more agressive, i have more of a craving to aproach a girl but i still dont do anything. something is holding me back. the main reason i did it was to be more interested in having sex but now it seems i dont even want sex anymore. whats the missing key? did i just grow out of sex in general? i still get turned on but i simply cannot approach randomly even though ive done it before

sorry about the long story.

iam friends with a girl i met at school. i tried to get her to open up to me and overtime we became pretty close friends. i told her i like her and she likes me too but she said she is waiting for someone and plans to marry him. so i moved on. about a month later i told her about a girl ive been seeing and gave me some advice like any friend would. then one day i asked her about her and her future husband, but she said she decided not to be with him anymore and i was surprised by that. a few weeks ago she randomly texted me just telling me that she misses me which is not odd for her to say to someone shes super sweet to people. another day i asked her if i could go with her to church like she always does but then asked if i was going for myself or just to see her and i told her to see her and she got offended by that because i wasnt being completely honest about why i was going and said "if u wanted to spend time together you should just ask me out on a date or something". are these signs that shes interested in me now? or am i just reading too deep into it?

sorry about the long story.

iam friends with a girl i met at school. i tried to get her to open up to me and overtime we became pretty close friends. i told her i like her and she likes me too but she said she is waiting for someone and plans to marry him. so i moved on. about a month later i told her about a girl ive been seeing and gave me some advice like any friend would. then one day i asked her about her and her future husband, but she said she decided not to be with him anymore and i was surprised by that. a few weeks ago she randomly texted me just telling me that she misses me which is not odd for her to say to someone shes super sweet to people. another day i asked her if i could go with her to church like she always does but then asked if i was going for myself or just to see her and i told her to see her and she got offended by that because i wasnt being completely honest about why i was going and said "if u wanted to spend time together you should just ask me out on a date or something". are these signs that shes moving on or am i just reading too deep into it?

m 21 years old and i am now single. ive been watching porn since i was 13 years old. i tend to do my own thing and prefer to do those things alone now more than ever. i have nothing to impress girls. no car. no job. im just a guy in college who likes to lift weights and then masturbate at home. would i even have a chance if i have not much else to offer? i dont think of myself as special or anything. im just like anyone else

Im 21 years old and i am now single. ive been watching porn since i was 13 years old. i tend to do my own thing and prefer to do those things alone now more than ever. i have nothing to impress girls. no car. no job. im just a guy in college who likes to lift weights and then masturbate at home. would i even have a chance if i have not much else to offer?

im in college and i like to spend my time exercising. last week my friend was with a girl and i joined them. the girl whispered something to my friend and looked at me and i thought maybe i had **** on my face or something. then she asked me what my name was and then she said "woooooow"and i got more confused. i just left because i didnt know what to say. today a girl asked me to show her an exercise and then i showed her and she kept giggling and pretending she didnt know even though her form was actually better than most people ive taught. again, i didnt make a move or try to at least be her friend or even ask her name. now i regret it but at the same time, i dont see myself as the kind of guy that gets girls. why? because i am insecure and shy. which girls hate. is there any hope for me? what can i do?

im in college and i like to spend my time exercising. last week my friend was with a girl and i joined them. the girl whispered something to my friend and looked at me and i thought maybe i had **** on my face or something. then she asked me what my name was and then she said "woooooow"and i got more confused. i just left because i didnt know what to say. today a girl asked me to show her an exercise and then i showed her and she kept giggling and pretending she didnt know even though her form was actually better than most people ive taught. again, i didnt make a move or try to at least be her friend or even ask her name. now i regret it but at the same time, i dont see myself as the kind of guy that gets girls. why? because i am insecure and shy. which girls hate. is there any hope for me? what can i do?

im 20 years old and i am noticing that for some reason, the older i get, the more hesitant i become about speaking my mind. however i am less "shy" in a way but i remember i used to take more risks with girls when i was younger. now that im older and more mature i still dont get girls. not because i come off too strong, but because i dont even try. even if the girl comes up to me and starts a conversation with me, i act nice but it doesnt go anywhere because i dont make any move. what can i do?

i have a ****** up mentality of only wanting to talk to girls only if i feel like i want to get in bed with them. other wise i am not interested in being their "friend".its not that i manipulate people. on the contrary i tend to keep to myself in general. im shy but i have this strong urge to talk to more girls because i may regret being like this later in life. but i dont know what to do or how to hold a conversation. its becoming easier to talk to people now but not girls. its as if i think of women as other creatures. maybe from various bad experiences. anyways, what should i do or should i stay the same person?

im 20 years old and i am now wanting to sleep around with chicks. i dont want to find a relationship but i also think it is messed up that i only want to talk to girls if im interested in sex and not really just their friend. the reason i didnt do this before was because i was shy and i still am but slowly but surely evolving. any tips on what i should do? i feel like if i DONT then i may regret it when im older and also perhaps resent women and see them as only pieces of meat if not see them as bitches.

i am 20 and this may seem like a stupid or odd thing comming from a 20 year old. i havent been with that many girls and i am now becoming more outgoing. i do still see myself as a quiet and shy person but alot of people see me as maybe cold and distant. i want to become more approachable with girls but i also think its a bad idea because i would only want to be this way to get in bed with them and nothing more. is it a bad idea to explore while im young before i settle down or is it not worth the trouble especially if i only want to have sex?

my gf likes me to spit in her mouth when having sex. im just wondering if this is something alot of girls are into and why

i am 20 and this may seem like a stupid or odd thing comming from a 20 year old. i havent been with that many girls and i am now becoming more outgoing. i do still see myself as a quiet and shy person but alot of people see me as maybe cold and distant. i want to become more approachable with girls but i also think its a bad idea because i would only want to be this way to get in bed with them and nothing more. is it a bad idea to explore while im young before i settle down or is it not worth the trouble especially if i only want to have sex?

my gf likes me to spit in her mouth when having sex. im just wondering if this is something alot of girls are into and why

im 20 and no matter how much i do with my life to better it, i still suck at interacting with people. especially girls. i just dont know what to talk about and whenever i see people talk, i think in my head that all of it is pointless. like when they talk about stuff that happened to them or what they are doing with their lives. i find it boring and i feel no one cares about my life so whats the point?

i know its possible to build stregnth and not gain weight but is the same true if i switch to mass building? not that i mind gaining weight but i have trouble getting all the calories i need everyday to "gain weight" which makes it hard for me to bulk

i do olympic lifting and some powerliftin mostly and i want to gain some more mass but im afraid to use machines and isolation movements as it could affect my performance. also my arms are super small and dont grow since i never train arms like most ppl