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To shy to meet girls?

Im 21 years old and i am now single. ive been watching porn since i was 13 years old. i tend to do my own thing and prefer to do those things alone now more than ever. i have nothing to impress girls. no car. no job. im just a guy in college who likes to lift weights and then masturbate at home. would i even have a chance if i have not much else to offer?

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  • 4 years ago
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    to get a woman you have to believe you are the man. They love a confident man, with authority. The problem is that if you have never being successful with women, there is nowhere to get confidence right?

    I know that because I was like you, and dont pay attention to people that tell you no to think about getting a woman; a thing my father should have told me (or maybe it was different back on his day) is that by the age of 20 women that want children, get prenant and by 30 they are single mothers who want a father for their children.

    so, unless you want to be a stepfather in propose. (nothing wrong with being one, but not the ideal for a man) work on being an alpha male. Do not look for a girlfriend, do not try to flirt, you are not interested in that right know.

    the first thing I want you to do is to ask the time to ramdom girls on the streets. Like this:

    Excuse me, can you please tell me what time is it?

    -She answers; it is this time oclock.

    you: Thank you. And continue your way.

    do it once or twice during the day, make sure no to wear your watch...and dont worry if a woman answers angrily (thats part of the flirting process in women: to get angry or to ignore) Just try with another girl to feel better.

    You have to do it for a month or two.

    and then when you feel ready, I want you to start conversations with women in the bus or anywhere where you happen to be next to a woman. Dont ask her anything important, nor her name, nothing personal, nor say anything personal. Just unimportant things (The weather, how crowded is the buss)

    do that for a month or two, and then try to start complimenting women (make the compliment so that she finds it funny) it doesnt matter if you are not intersted in that woman or if she is a married friend you are not interested in. they like it and it feels awesome. Also do not lose any omportunity you have to hug your female friends.

    and to help you a little more, I suggest this subliminal files:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sg8gTv8-al4

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1twWUS-ig6w

    listen to them daily, but only if you do not have epilepsy.

    they are the best in youtube, and I have checked many.

    also, look for information about "alpha male" in youtube, tutorials, videos, books on line.

    if you follow these instructions you will have a girlfriend sitting in your lap by july, you will see.

  • 4 years ago

    Focus on your education and someday, the rest will follow. Degrees will get you jobs, and you can use the money to get a car and driving lessons. You might even be able to find summer jobs on-campus so that you could earn money without needing to drive to work. Pay off your student loans for residence and tuition another year and for now, start building your future.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    tinder.

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