meeting new girls?

You said: "i have a ****** up mentality of only wanting to talk to girls only if i feel like i want to get in bed with them. other wise i am not interested in being their "friend"

I don't know why you don't want to be friends with girls. Girls aren't some mystical creatures who are so totally different from guys. They can be great friends. I had a lot of guy friends when I was growing up, so maybe that is why I feel that way. You can find a lot of things in common with them, and perhaps more than you think.

"...on the contrary i tend to keep to myself in general. im shy but i have this strong urge to talk to more girls because i may regret being like this later in life."

Don't be afraid to talk with them. They are only human, just like you. They laugh, cry, eat, and sleep just like you. They do a lot of the same things that you do. Take a chance and talk with them. There are girls around you right now who would love to be your friend. Give them a chance.