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Too quiet and shy to meet people?

im 20 and no matter how much i do with my life to better it, i still suck at interacting with people. especially girls. i just dont know what to talk about and whenever i see people talk, i think in my head that all of it is pointless. like when they talk about stuff that happened to them or what they are doing with their lives. i find it boring and i feel no one cares about my life so whats the point?

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  • justa
    Lv 7
    5 years ago

    The point is that you stop being so self absorbed if you want to have friends and relate to others.

    Think about it, you're bored with what's happening to them but you really want them to listen to you and what's happening in your life, but you're afraid to talk in the first place. A conversation is an exchange of ideas or happenings. And we all want to talk about ourselves. Not every conversation is going to be earthshaking.

    I mean really what's so great and different about what you're doing? We all put up with some disinteresting conversation. You either do that or sit in your corner. No one is going to care about you unless you care about someone else.

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