Is there a way to teach your spouse how to consider your feelings?

When you really love someone their happiness is more important to you than your own. It's this love that makes people put their own feelings aside and do what makes their partner happy.

Sometimes only one person in a relationship feels this sort of love while the other just takes advantage of the others willingness to give and give.

Sometimes neither person in the relationship feels this love in which case they're both just out for whatever will make them happy.

Sometimes, both people in the relationship feel this love and no one gets taken advantage of because they're both giving to the other in a more or less even handed exchange.

I'm sorry to say that it sounds to me like your husband just doesn't feel this sort of love for you. He is the most important person in his life, not you. IMO, if he doesn't feel this way yet, he isn't going to.

Yes there is, via a third party a marriage counselor. You need a mediator.

Time travel and convincing his parents that they shouldn't spoil him.

you panty train him.once you have him in your panties you have total control..he will be a puppy at your feet and your command

no they don't care about you or your feeling when they want it they want it doesn't matter what you think or feeling its call all about me.