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I've had a friend since high school. We're both 45. She's a neo-conservative religious right type person and I'm an atheist. I'm working on my degree and minoring in human rights. She believes blacks are lazy and the white man is getting the shaft because he has to work harder to carry the black man. She abhors homosexuality. I'm a live-and-let-live kinda girl. I love her, bottom line. I do, however, believe she is being willfully ignorant of facts and statistics about racial divide in economy between blacks and whites. I can cite studies and have. She says she can, too, but is "too busy." My reasoning says to get out of this relationship while my history with her says I should just take her vitriol as her opinion and not engage her. What would you do?
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- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
I would continue being her friend, under some conditions. Who knows, maybe you'll rub off on her. I know her racist opinions bother you, but you have a couple options. Either ask her if she'll allow discussion into the matter (but this seems unlikely from her unwillingness to provide evidence) or ask her to please refrain from (or reduce the amount of) those sorts of remarks while in your presence. If she doesn't want to do either, then she's not a very good friend and I would consider parting ways.
- 8 years ago
I think this is only a small difference between the two of you. You've grown up together and it wouldn't be good to end a relationship just because you have different opinions on some things. But if she keeps bringing it up, just spend less time with her.