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What can I do to satisfy myself or get over it ?
I reaaaallly like this guy, but he went out with both of my friends. One of them was a close friend and the other one was a distant friend. He also has a rep for being a player. Also, he tells everyone that he likes me and stuff like that. He flirts with me alot and he is very obvious. He makes"sexual" gestures and he makes me feel good about myself. I wanna be with him, but I think him and my distant friend are still together. Idk really, I guess it complicated. I like him .... alot, but Jake, that's his name, comes with alot of complications. Is it worth it ? & how would I get over him or make it work ?
2 Answers
- 8 years ago
First, and most important if you want to go ahead of this.
Ask him directly if he's still going out with your 'distant' friend..if he says yes, then ask him why he's been flirting with you if he's still going out with her. You could also ask your 'distant' friend too if he is, and see if you get a different answer. You could then talk more with them about how he's flirting with you and such right now even though they're going out currently. Maybe if you talked more then, you could become better than just 'distant' friends too. =)
Also, I wouldn't trust a guy that cheats, he might just leave you after a while from being bored, and maybe going out with another girl or cheat on you himself too. Same goes with girls I suppose..What I say about cheating is that it's pointless. I mean why would someone go out with someone if they're just going to cheat on them? Then that means that they never actually cared about them in the first place. I don't get cheating :\
I hope that everything goes good in the long run and you make the right decision though. ^_^
Source(s): If you want extra help with this I could try if you wanted? But this is as much as I can say so far :s My email'd be german_desu@ymail.com if you wanted though. ^_^ - 8 years ago
Personally, I don't think it's worth it at the moment because you might risk losing your distant friend over a guy who probably won't stick around for very long if he's known to be a player. It's up to you though. Maybe give it a try if you figure out that he isn't dating anyone you're friends with.
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