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is it normal to be a virgin at 19?

Im still a virgin and never had a girlfriend or been kissed before and Im 19 is this odd

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  • 8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    It's not abnormal. If this persists much past 25 though, well, you should think about where you're going with your life.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    The only thing odd is you thinking that it's odd. Dude, grow some balls. If a girl thinks it's bad for you to be a virgin she clearly has some mental issues. Most girls have more serious things to worry about than that. (I hope). You're good. And I'm one year older than you, a guy too, and also a virgin and I don't care what girls - of a questionable morality I might add - think of me. So 'don't sweat it'.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    You are a late bloomer

    but maybe this is just how things develop for you personally

    I wished I would not have started sexually until I had gotten out of college

    as it was I had made a lot of mistakes in relationships with the opposite sex

    I think you are normal but maybe you are worried you are not up to speed concerning sex?

    don't worry

    at 19 you will still have a lot of time to find out about the opposite sex

    its never easy in relationships with any other people

    with or without sex

    life can be very confusing and demanding

    I have been married for almost 28 years and I never will figure out how my wife thinks but I

    think

    You can't understand a women

    you can only just love them

  • 8 years ago

    Its not as unusual as you fear mate, i once dated a 24 year old girl who was a virgin and a 23 year old guy lost his virginity at my student house at uni, both had never had a relationship before!

    Remember dude, there's a time and a place for everything, its called University!

    Student unions are your friend, trust em on this one! Just act like a bit of a dick (The kind of guy you want to punch) and you'll get somewhere!

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  • 8 years ago

    No it's not odd that your still a virgin at 18, and yes it is very normal. I'm 21 and still a virgin. Who cares? Be yourself, and as long as your happy.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    okay clearly theres something wrong if youre 53 and virgin thats not normal wtf!? and if youre younger than him your answer is not relevant. simply in moderns times dude no thats not normal. 100 years ago you would be married and having children by now. in modern times the sluts are all losing it at 12 and 13 the average sexual people are losing it at around 16 and the ones who are holding out for love lose it around your age. its not that bad to still be a virgin at your age but to never have had a girlfriend or been kissed yeah thats wierd. go out there and get a girlfriend bro. just keep asking girls out until one says yes. if they say no who cares move on to the next one. at 19 i assume youre in college so there are thousands of girls around you right now. you have nothing to lose and everything to gain GO GET EM!!

    on a side note if you have never had a girlfriend because you have no interest or strong urges to engage in sexual activities this could be the result of a medical condition that could be severe or as simple as not getting proper nutrition/exercise.

    Source(s): life
  • 8 years ago

    I lost my virginity at 19.

  • 8 years ago

    At 19 what?

    Pounds, hours, degrees , months, seconds....

    Besides, what is your hurry. Remember, you came out to this world as a Virgin. You had never had sex before you came out from your Moms wound ...

    Now, your male member won't crack down and stop working as soon as you turn 20 .

    Source(s): Mr Positive
  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    I actual waited until eventually i became 21. multiple my associates had, and a couple of them ended up pregnant. I basically wasn't waiting. It turned right into a own determination, and that i do not remorseful about it. i had to watch for someone who became good for me. i'm no longer gentle with random hook united statesa. bars or golf equipment both. some females are, yet when I sleep with someone, i go with to be gentle with them and comprehend them. you could continuously get on the pill in case you imagine you're going to have sex. that's what I did. I requested for it for my heavy sessions, and in case I were to have sex because i began relationship someone. basically bypass to the physician and tell her and he or she'll prescribe it for you. and that i'm like you too, i'm afraid of having pregnant. So inspite of if you're on birth control, I make my boyfriend use a condom and pull out basically in case. desire that helps!

  • 8 years ago

    of course! that's something I could be proud of. i'll be wearing a tag around my neck saying i am a virgin. kidding. i lost mine at 26 actually. so, there's nothing to worry. why is that a big deal, anyway? you're just 19!

  • Alex
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    Yes dude it's normal haha. I'm 16 and still don't have a gf or kiss a girl yet. U will meet one later. U just have to wait.

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