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Just Married: Organization & violence woes?
I moved in with him, and he had his shirts all over the floor, so I picked them all up, washed them, ironed the nice ones and put them into the dresser and closet, as well as putting my stuff away also. He couldn't find one thing, threw a major temper tantrum and before I could help him, he went through both the dresser and closet, threw everything on the floor including all of my dresses and nice things into a huge pile and still couldn't find it and decided to hit me several times.
He was NEVER like this threw 3 years of dating and engagement. He was always a gentlemen, I just don't know what to do, we haven't been married for more than a month! I just want to cry, should I ask for divorce, it just seems all wrong!
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- jimruns919Lv 48 years agoFavorite Answer
That is wrong. No matter how upset he gets he should never EVER hit you. I would suggest leave and go somewhere for a bit. Make him understand he can never do anything even remotely like that and if he wants to be a slob than he married the wrong woman because you like clean and orderly.
However if he lays a hand on you ever again in anyway that is not protection or welcomed affection again, than that is when you need to have the marriage annuled or get a divorce. He obviously was hiding things from you and this violent nature is not a good thing and you should not have to accept this as part of your marriage.
