Does your chart have aspects that accurately indicate characteristics of your mother?

Wow... it's so true.

Virgo Moon 4H: my mom was quite a worrier and easily stressed, but she always gets things done. She never likes to leave things last minute (which I do, so opposite...), she used to get mad when I was messy and unorganized. She was a good mother though, always caring about me. :)

Moon Sextile Mercury: We had a relationship where we both understood each other, good communications. She knows what I will say or what I'm thinking before I even said what's on my mind!

Moon Square Mars/Moon Square Venus/Moon Quincunx Saturn: Yes my mom cared alot about me, but she was usually busy on her phone talking with friends. The saturn aspect, is the only one which I disagree with, I was never rejected, my mom was warm-loving and never cold to me.

Hi Ryan Sorry about the problems you seem to be having with your father. I can relate to what you're saying because I have always had difficulty when it comes to following orders. Since my father thinks that he is the one to call the shots, I always end up challenging him in return (maybe that explains my uranus in the 4th house). I dont know why this turns out to be the case but it has to do with my ego getting in the way and somehow I feel threatened and vulnerable when people expect me to obey them. It's all about feeling in control and if I give in to someone else's demands it will be like that person has shattered my pride and dignity. In my chart I appear to have a few bad aspects to saturn and many more to uranus. Uranus is even in opposition to my sun (which is in the 10th house) and this can and has caused problems. I dont know if you are experiencing anything similar but I would suggest that your compare your own chart with your father's chart to see what the conflict may be. Then try to look at his side with compassion in order to heighten your understanding of the situation. Keep in mind that whatever happens you should not blame yourself over this because some things are beyond your control and there is only so much turbulence a person can take. Your dad must also accept responsibility and cooperate if he wants things to work out this time around. Good Luck! :)

10th house moon in Scorpio

Conjunct Venus

Trine Jupiter

I adore my mom, even though we don't always agree and she gets nutty when she doesn't take her meds (she's bipolar). That's the only time she wasn't there for me, and she was pretty nasty to everyone, but it's not her fault she has the disease and I think she has post traumatic stress from being abused by my sister's dad who was her high school sweetheart and he died in a motorcycle accident when he was 24 so she was also widowed young mother with no counseling whatsoever.

My mom is a saint, my conscience definitely has her voice, and she's the love of my life, and possibly the cutest living creature on earth. She's super protective of me and my sister and brother, typical mama bear. But she has told me many times that I'm the one that makes HER feel calm and protected out of the three cuz I'm "like a rock" even as a baby I soothed her, and if she had a friend like me when she was young I would have saved her from a lot of hurt cuz I always have her back and give her confidence like nobody else. :)

MOON aspecting SATURN - adds seriousness to the mother. Harmonious aspects-indicate a stable,responsible mother...possibly not very demonstrative with affections. Hard aspect-mother may have been cold,a disciplinarian or may have rejected the child in some way,resulting in problematic personality in the child.

MOON aspecting MARS - connections can manifest as courage/strength; or with over aggression. Mother may have been forceful, or (inharmonious) indicates anger in the childhood home

Hmm I am not sure about this,I think my 4th house describes my mother perfectly (4th in Aries,ruler Mars in Virgo) she's an Aries Sun/rising with Leo Moon,very fiery type,also very hardworking,caring and protective :)

Jana,that's right,thanks for helping me understand :)

Definitely.

Moon in Taurus

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Opposite Pluto.

Pluto opposite Moon.. Power struggles or striving to dominate. Growing up, I felt my mother wanted me to submit to all her demands or rules, like she was dominating or trying to control me. I hated it. So, I inwardly rebelled. Which she could always sense. But she is also very kind and compassionate. So, its hard NOT to get along with her. Its an odd mix. But now... I love my mom very much, I love being around her and spending time with her.

My Moon has 3 planets aspecting my moon, of those you mention; 2 aren;t that great.

My Saturn Sextile my Moon-My mom was responsible, stable, when I saw her.

My Venus squared to my Moon-Yes, she was into glamourous things, not much into being a mom. My sister was more of a mom to me/

My Jupiter squared to Moon-She tried to buy me and guess I was spoiled somewhat, maybe still am?. I do remember the good things she tried to teach me, and gave a strong sense of morality.Guess that was cause of the Jupiter, even with a square to my moon?

Yes. it's pretty accurate in my case. thanx

In regard to the Moon aspects only, I think they show a good analysis of my own mother/child relationship. My strongest Moon aspects are Moon/Neptune conjunct and Moon/Ascendant conjunct.

Moon/Neptune conjunct: My mother fits the description of spiritual and artistic. She didn't drink or do drugs, and was against these practices. She felt that spirituality and controlling one's own mind and will-power were the answer to living a happy life, and she didn't understand why people needed to use drinking or drugs to achieve this purpose. This was a strong influence on me, because I feel the same way about drugs and drinking. I'm not meaning to sound as if I was raised by Mary Poppins, because she definitely had her darker days. I'm not sure, but I think she didn't believe in holding in emotions at all, and saw that as useless. On this particular point, I guess I learned how I didn't want to be from her behavior. I don't go into a crying spell every time I disagree with someone over any minor issue. I do think I developed a strong sense of spirituality from her outlook on life, and I definitely have a deep respect for her will-power. This was a lasting influence on me. Her idea of dieting was if she gained a few pounds, she would not wait to diet. She would immediately cut back for a week or more on food and drink until she was back to her ideal weight. She would explain that will-power is about choices. One could eat everything in sight with abandon, or one could push back from the table or refrigerator and feel the strength which comes from self-control. She was talented with art, and she encouraged me to develop my own style. I liked her drawings and paintings, but she emphasized how each person should express their own originality.

Moon/Ascendant conjunct: I have a nurturing and protective personality. This is strongly embedded within me, and has been a priority in my life. I love family, and those I consider family, unconditionally. I don't always like what they do, but I feel this is the most important part of my life, and my strongest ability. My mother was this way, but she was extremely moody about the way she handled problems with family members. I guess from witnessing this, and having the aspect in Libra, I've learned to balance my thoughts and opinions with logic. I won't let any of the nurturing or protectiveness of others interfere with emotions for long. It's like I tell myself, okay that's enough "what if" and worry, because I've done all I reasonably can do, and now I'm moving on to being practical and positive.

Moon/Pluto sextile and Moon/Neptune/Ascendant square MC: My mother gave me an extremely strong sense that I could be and do anything I wanted. I think this is represented by the Moon/Ascendant sextile Pluto in the 10th House. That was the good side. The bad side was she planned out what she thought I could be and do. In some ways, it was as if she wanted to relive what she didn't do with her life, but through me. So I walked an emotional tightrope way up high, feeling that I could achieve anything I wanted, but risking falling and loosing that emotional security and encouragement from her if it wasn't something she preferred for me. Ultimately, I did what I wanted. I moved a long distance away partly out of circumstances, and partly out of liking the independence I felt. I would return home and Mom would want to "show me off" (as she put it) to her sisters, brothers and friends. I didn't like doing that, but it made her happy. She would sometimes say to her friends that my career wasn't what she thought I should be doing with my life. In time, she she seemed to change on that matter, but I was never able to tell for sure if it was respect for my choice, or acceptance that I was just as headstrong as she was. I did let her know that her strong will and encouragement to be all I could be was a big influence on me.

Happy Mother's Day to all Mothers, Grandmothers, Great-Grandmothers and so on.

Yup, and nothing good...

"Sun in IV

Influenced by the family, especially the mother. Proud, self-confident, she has faith in her future and is ambitious." With this being said, THIS is how it's not good....

"-13 Square Venus - Saturn

This aspect sometimes means unhealthy sensuality. She is hard, and does not know how to express her emotions. She is frightened of showing her love, and this leads to disappointments, break-ups, lack of satisfaction. It is likely that she had problems with her mother, who did not know how to love her or give her self-confidence. She doubts, is suspicious and jealous. She will learn how to be happy in love, to be at ease with herself and to control her jealousy in the second half of her life, thanks to an older person, who gives her self-confidence back to her, so she can then trust others."

My mother was never in my life, and my step mother got pregnant by my father. Her and her family always massively favored her children over me (I understand why, no blood relation to me, but I still suffered horribly, emotionally). And oddly enough, the guy I like now is 13 years older than me (it mentioned an older person who gives my self-confidence back, which I have actually been slowly reaquiring...)

It says this about me (I have no kids, and don't want them, but even so):

"House IV in Virgo

Makes a good mother, watching over her children, spending the night in an armchair near a sick child, caring for and calming him/her with patience. Knows how to look after her home perfectly, how to iron out difficulties by her practical sense and thanks to her intelligence."

yeh, taurus moon. mom was into the finer things in life. good food, clothing, jewelry, music. full appreciation for venus things. she didn't drink though.

moon biquitile jupiter, inconjunct saturn, sesquiquadrate neptune

sun opposition moon

moon square mars

moon square pluto

THNX =)