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Am I bi? or straight?

I like girls, I've had tons of crushes of them. But like I can't see myself ever going down on a girl, like the farthest I'd go is makeout. But when I have a crush on one, I fall harder than I ever had for a guy but I always see myself having sex with a guy. Basically I've never truly fallen for a guy except for one but if a girl doesn't feel the same I always get really depressed. So I'm really confused I hope this isn't too confusing cuz I would love any advice.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    There is definitely a chance that you are bi. My advice to you would be to not rush into things. I am a bisexual female and when I first started to think that I was bi, I could see myself dating a girl and having sex with one maybe, but what held me back was that I could not see myself spending the rest of my life with a woman. Eventually I realised I could. So just take it easy, don't rush yourself as this is something important. I'm sure you will realise who you truly are soon.

  • 8 years ago

    This is a really really difficult one.

    I don't know how accurate you'd consider this, or how accurate others would consider this but here is what from what I've seen personally how people define themselves in this situation:

    Romantically: Bi-Sexual

    Sexually: Straight

    Like I said, it depends on the person. Some people will tell you that the whole romantically/sexually thing is complete bullsh*t.

    But that just seems the easiest way to define it here.

    Hope that helps :)

  • 8 years ago

    perhaps you can visualize yourself engaged in tribadism. If you don't know what that is go on line (I suggest private browsing) and check on videos of that. It does not involve anything oral. I personally think it is way hotter than oral. Anyway a lot of women in their mid teens worry about the same thing you are. I just don't think think there is enough information available to know for sure where you are on the spectrum

  • 8 years ago

    May be you are bi. some bi people like one sex over the other. like u like guys better than girls.or girls better than guys. it takes time to know what u are sometimes.

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  • 8 years ago

    That is the exact same way with me. It's really confusing and I don't understand.

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