The pressures of society and he sexual subjugation of young women?

"Shouldn't young women be taught that their needs must be met too, when it comes to sex?"

Yes.

"Shouldn't they be taught to reject men who pressure them to have sex, but show no interest in making them feel pleasure?"

Yes.

"Why on earth are young women taught to expect sex to be painful?"

Because it is painful for some perhaps.

"Why aren't they taught to demand that sex be nothing but pleasure?"

Because that would be an unrealistic demand.

I think young women. Look at all the tv ads, shows, movies, magazines all point towards being sexy and the value of a woman is sex. Men don't have that kind of pressure.

The funny thing is girls are ready earlier than boys to have sex. I remember as a 12 year old, a girl would claim she masturbate all the time, the other girls were not shy or blaiming for liking sex...

There is a huge gap between what socitety try to teach us girls how to act, and the reality.

Nothing is healthy in saying to girls sex is dirty (or evil in some religions), it provokes only mental problems, and the first time will only hurt, the girl won't let it go, stress.

In other societies, women are the ones initiating sex, vagina is considered the 'active' one.

All the contrary in our society.

And yes it's creepy and not reassuring to be born girl in such society.