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Something wrong with "down there?" please help!?

So, my boyfriend and i are sexually active. & for as long as i can remember, it hurts sooooooo bad. and i went to the gyno the other day. and the pain was unbearable, where i started crying. she said she sees nothing wrong with me down there. he is the only person I've ever done anything sexual with. and after we have sex or do anything like that, i bleed A LOT. What could this be? Im really sick of it and i want it gone!

Update:

We have had sex tons of times. its more of a burning pain, but its worse than burning.

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  • 8 years ago
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    Is he exceptionally large or are you exceptionally small?

    There are vaginal dilators you can get that'll "stretch" you so that intercourse doesn't hurt (if tightness is the problem)

    http://www.vaginismus.com/products/dilator_set

    http://ourquiethope.wordpress.com/2010/01/16/sugge...

    Also, you may not be producing enough lubrication. You may need to buy some.

    Also, lots of foreplay helps lubricate the way. Tell him not to skimp.

  • 8 years ago

    You need more details about the pain? Wat kind of pain? Burning itching??? Or just sore after sex... well if he's the only guy u had sex with.. you cud just be REALlY tight down there. Once you continue to have sex it'll loosen up a little n the pain will go away

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