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Atheist: Is this an okay coming out post for my facebook?
"I'm not posting this to fight or upset people. I'm posting this because it is true and has been for a very long time. I'm the same person I was before you read this post and I want everyone to remember that. I'm not posting this to let you all know I'm lost or being a rebel or going throw a phase in my life. I'm posting this to let you know that even though I feel this way doesn't mean I'm a bad person. I'm saying this on facebook because I can't say it to your face. I don't want anyone to see me differently but I'm hurt that I can't just be myself around the people I care about. I have tried my hardest to get past this but as long as I can honestly remember I have truly never believed in god."
@Caylay Thank you.
*through a phase in my life.
I'm married so I would assume most people would get that I'm not coming out...do you think I should throw a (I'm not GAY!) in there lol
21 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
Nice post, but I generally avoid getting that personal in social media.
- 8 years ago
First of all, everyone that reads this is going to think you're coming out as homosexual until the last bit there. Which is fine, but uh, I don't think that's your point.
You may want to cut some of the stuff out, go for something simple, like "Hey everyone that it concerns! I do not, and have never, believed in god." Then maybe a winky or smiley face if you're feeling it.
You can try to explain it so everyone that this may potentially upset will understand, but chances are, they won't. You'll have to have the "Why don't you believe in god?" conversation with all of them, and they will ask different questions. So be prepared to back up your reasoning and beliefs, or I guess I should say, lack thereof.
Source(s): I went through the same thing, in an environment infested with Christians. - Lrac NagasLv 68 years ago
That's good but some people will look at you differently after, just try to remember it is not their fault, they have been conditioned to dislike people that have a different belief especially a non-belief.
You may get some very rude comments and some un-friending, so be ready for that.
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Edit: Married, Dam, looks and an atheist,,, Your hubby is a lucky man... LOL
- 鵲 MagpieLv 68 years ago
Overall it's classy and well written.
One minor criticism is that it tips the balance from being non-confrontational to being apologetic.
You don't owe anyone an apology or a justification or a rationalization for the atheism. You atheism is not some "problem" that you've failed to correct, and it's up to other people to accept or reject your position.
Try this
I don't believe in gods, and I respect you enough to let you know.
I've tolerated your belief in gods for all this time, now I'd like you to reciprocate.
Nothing needs to change between us unless you decide it must.
Thanks.
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- Anonymous8 years ago
Why are you posting that to facebook? Just change your religion settings on your About Me page, let the notification come up on your timeline, and enjoy the comments.
- 8 years ago
I think it's a nice post as well. Everyone's going to be reading it, thinking to themselves (because everyone is judgmental to a certain degree)..."oh, just as I suspected. Ariel is gay." My guess is that a third of the people won't even read the post all the way through. They'll just assume you're gay. Which is safer...atheists are hated just a tad more than gays are hated.
- Anonymous8 years ago
It's a good post, humble and quiet.
I wouldn't even do a coming out post, personally. It's more fun when it comes up in casual conversation!
- ?Lv 48 years ago
Atheism really isn't that big of a deal. That's the type of thing you'd say if you were coming out as gay.
EDIT - I agree with Banana about casual conversation, as well.
Source(s): Atheist - Anonymous8 years ago
Well it's only fair. Why should religious people be able to be open about their selves and you aren't? I think anything would be perfect. I am openly atheist to all my friends. And they accept me for who I am. If people don't accept you for who you are, Eff 'em. That's my advice.
Source(s): Personal Experience. One of my closest friends is a very devoted christian. - Anonymous8 years ago
That's a great post!