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"Taking a break" or "breaking up"?
I have a very happy relationship with my boyfriend, and there is not a thing about it I would change. But, with the school year coming to a close, his parents have decided that our relationship is somehow a distraction, and have made him break up with me until summer begins in about 3 weeks. We didn't officially break up, but he has made it seem like we have in his mind. He says things like "To my parents, we're broken up. But to us, we're just taking a break." but then he says things like "People may be concerned for you because you just got out of a relationship." So I'm really confused. We still talk to each other, say things like "I love you" and "I miss you" and he had me thinking that our "break-up" was just a charade for his parents, but now I'm starting to think that he has the idea that we're actually broken up. Help!!!
4 Answers
- johnb693Lv 78 years ago
Only he knows what he has in his mind. However, it does seem strange that his parents, find you were distracting him.
Has he failed any of his exams or tests yet?
I think he's pretending you have broken up, and just taking a so called 'break'. HIs statement about what people may think about how you feel as to this break up, may just be his way of telling you to act as if it's true, so it gets back to his parents.
If people see you as happy as usual, some how, that may get back to them, and ruin this pretend break up.
But basically, you will just have to wait and see, how he behaves, in this faux break up.
As it's only for three weeks, you won't need long to figure it out.
- Anonymous5 years ago
the only element you're able to do is provide him the area he's soliciting for. you may permit him comprehend you're nevertheless his pal if he needs somebody to talk to yet otherwise he's not your boyfriend anymore and if he is going to choose for he nevertheless needs to be with you back later that's going to be like commencing over. purely back off and supply him some time to think of because of the fact in case you push him you will purely be pushing him away. this is not common and unhappy yet you ought to pass approximately your existence without him. yet i could propose no longer courting all and sundry else for a whilst purely out of appreciate and staying power in case he comes around. yet once you provide him time and he does not come back then purely pass on because of the fact you ought to anticipate that a harm is breaking apart.
- ?Lv 48 years ago
Its naturally just taking a break. If he's actually beginning to think it's "breaking up", his "I love yous" aren't real. If he actually did love you & deep down inside didn't want his parents to do this to you guys, then it'd just be taking a break. Give it some time, don't freak out.
~CandyB xx
- Jay RLv 78 years ago
This is a matter that you will have to explore in more detail with HIM. Ask him what he sees for you two in the months to come.