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I don't know if I am being shallow or not?

I found out that my Girl friend of 4 mouths, used to do porn in Cali for anumber of years. She told me, and showed me one of her video's. I was abit shocked, and somewhat disgusted. I looked her up on my own time, and some of her video's were really hardcore.... Like.... she literally got run through.

I just don't respect her now. And being with her makes me feel dirty. She is going to school now to be a teacher, and find that also very disturbing.

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  • 8 years ago
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    I'd yes yes you're being a little shallow. Would it have made a difference if she did those things in private and not on film?

    People in those films are making good money and now she's pursuing something she really wants to do. It was just a job, and you really shouldn't hold it against her.

    But if you can't get over it, tell her and break it off. She deserves someone who will see her for who she is and not what she has done in the past.

    And you deserve someone you can respect and not think is disgusting because of something they did once upon a time.

    At least she was honest and was probably very nervous and frightened to tell you exactly because of this reaction.

  • 8 years ago

    I kind of agree with you, it's not a very good choice to have made as a previous career. It depends if your the type of person who is willing to see past it and accept her if you love her enough to want to continue your relationship. But to be honest it sounds like you don't so I'd end it gently.

  • 8 years ago

    I'll feel that way too, but sometmes you gotta get over some things. Maybe try talking to her about it.

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    8 years ago

    well if you do not like it, let her go

    Source(s): my head
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