Dating a girl who is "easy"?

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I like this girl and things have been going good. We met about two months ago and had hung out several times with a bunch of friends than we hung out a few times alone within last two weeks. We kissed our second time hanging out alone then hung out with friends again few days later an made out that night then the next day we had sex. I didn't really initiate it because I didn't want to come across as that's all I cared about but I mean I was getting touchy so it was probably obvious I wanted too but anyway she initiated it and then after said she shouldn't have because she's worried that I will think less of her now. I told her that wasn't something I used to judge a persons character because its not. But the next day we talked a bit a bout past relationships and I am not sure how many guys she's slept with as I didn't ask but it seems as if though she has always been easy at least for guys she has had things with or dated. Is this a red flag for a girl as a partner? I have only had one real relationship before and she was a virgin when we first dated and we waited 7 months and I have not had a lot of experience dating outside of that so im just curious if that should make me skeptical at all in viewing her as serious partner? Both of us are over 18. Just wanted outside opinion on this, thanks.

Update:

I feel like some of you misinterpreted what I said- im not jealous or bothered that she has slept with other people. I just have never been with a girl who was easy and I was curious about what that may say about her as a partner, as ive always been told and believed good girls tend to make you wait a little longer is all. But thanks for all the responses.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

As your grow older sex becomes less a prize and more like something girls and guys like to do. Enjoy it and don't worry about it unless she starts cheating or flirting with other guys. Don't take it as a compliment though because if you let your ego get inflated and she ends up being "easy" you will feel hurt. Just relax and enjoy it.

? · Answer

The fact that you called her easy says that you already think less of her. There is a different standard for girls than there is guys and it sucks. A girl who is "easy" is usually just insecure and worried that she has to do that to keep you interested. Maybe men should realize that it's just as much their job to protect our "virtue" as it is ours. If you weren't trying to get in her pants, you wouldn't have gotten in them. Girls know that guys want sex and when a girl is insecure, she will do things she doesn't really want to just to make him happy. And she will feel bad about it...most likely for a long time. She will always wonder if you think less of her or if the only reason you stay with her is because she's having sex with you. Take responsibility for your actions before you call HER easy.

Helen B · Answer

The only time promiscuity becomes an issue in a relationship is when it is occurring while you are in the relationship.  Whether your partner has had 1 or 100  partners before you isn't relevant (as long as she was safe about it).  Women like sex just as much as men, the only difference these days is that we aren't afraid to talk about it.

Damocles · Answer

When you go to the dealership to buy a car you don't ask how many other guys have test-driven it before.  What matters is that once you take that car home, no other guys will be driving it after you.

luckyfluke · Answer

enjoy it unless she starts cheating on you or something.  Honestly, every person you're going to be with will have been with someone else.  What does it matter who or how many of them there were, what matters is their with you right now.
So go with it!!

Jess · Answer

She's probably throwing herself at you like that because she thinks that's what guys expect her to do. That they wouldn't like her is she didn't "put out." Make her realize that she doesn't have to do that if she doesn't mutually want to.

? · Answer

for a mature person there is no such thing as "easy" ---- if the lady knows what she wants then thats confidence to me ---- if you like her then her past is what made her who she is rejoice in it dont get all uptight about it

Anonymous · Answer

Never trust a hoe.

? · Answer

have sex with her until you get bored of her shes a slut

Tom Protago · Answer

get it

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