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megan:) asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 8 years ago

Should I Be The Bigger Person? Or Just Leave it Be?

My best friend won a contest for a spa day and she can bring 3 other people. She wants to bring me, "Friend A" and "Friend B". Friend A and I used to be very close friends until she stopped talking to me a year ago, during our high school graduation after we had a fight and had been experiencing (what I now see as immature and caddy) problems in our friendship. I don't want to turn down my best friends offer of the spa because shes really excited about it but I don't want to just be sitting there looking like I have a chip on my shoulder because Friend A doesn't like me. I feel like if I were to go and just ignore Friend A's prescence that would be really awkward. I probably sound immature to some people but...sorry I don't know what to tell you. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

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  • 8 years ago

    If I were you I would just ignore friend A and have fun with the rest of your friends. Show her that you can move on from her an you dont need her. You never know, maybe she will want to start talking to you after she sees that you are moving on. Dont let her bring you down from having a good girl time.- Mia

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