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megan:) asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 8 years ago

Should I Leave it be? Or Try to be the Bigger Person?

My best friend won a contest for a spa day and she can bring 3 other people. She wants to bring me, "Friend A" and "Friend B". Friend A and I used to be very close friends until she stopped talking to me a year ago, during our high school graduation after we had a fight and had been experiencing (what I now see as immature and caddy) problems in our friendship. I don't want to turn down my best friends offer of the spa because shes really excited about it but I don't want to just be sitting there looking like I have a chip on my shoulder because Friend A doesn't like me. I feel like if I were to go and just ignore Friend A's prescence that would be really awkward. I probably sound immature to some people but...sorry I don't know what to tell you. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

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  • 8 years ago

    I dont know how things works between your friends, but I see an opportunity to clear up the feelings with "Friend A". Good Luck

  • 8 years ago

    I think you should go, because who would not want to miss out on an opportunity like this? Just treat her nicely. Good jobb you know how to be the bigger person.

    Source(s): school
  • 8 years ago

    Just go n if she wants problems tell her off u here with your friend you don't have to talk to her, p's the trip is probably to get you to be friends again *hint hint*

    Source(s): Boss
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