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Sheena
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Sheena asked in HealthMental Health · 8 years ago

Please explain 2 me why I feel this way?

I'm casually dating 2 men in their late 40's. I'm 20 something. Please no lectures! Lets call these 2 middle age men A and J. I have known A for nearly 2 years. He is very energetic and talkative like me. I love talking to him. He always talks about his 2 kids who are a teacher and a nurse, his health problems, his neighbors, co workers and everything else. I met both of his kids 2 or 3 times. I don't even care when he talks about his ex-wife whom he is still in contact with. I have known J for nearly 3 years. He hardly talks about anything! Last week I found the report cards of his 2 straight A high school students while he wasn't home. I wonder why he never told me about or showed me the report cards! That is something to brag on and on about. I also found out that he gave his ex wife a 5,000 dollar engagement ring. Suddenly I'm starting 2 hate J, his kids and his ex wife! I'm almost wishing that I never even met the man! I don't even know why I feel this way! I don't hate As kids or ex wife who he is still good friends with. Why?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    "He gave his ex wife a 5,000 dollar engagement ring" Did you mean that when he was married to her? Or did you mean that as something he just recently did?

    If he did this recently to try and get back with her or whatever then NEXT him.

    If he did this back when he was married to her, then your just being childish and jealous. Obviously not ready for someone that is quite older than you.

    Oh and maybe you should stop dating two different guys.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    You have jelous try your own man.

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