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Sheena
Lv 7
Sheena asked in HealthMental Health · 8 years ago

What is wrong with my brother and his girl friend?

My brother is 30 something dating a woman barely out of her teens. Their relationship has been a 3 year long on again off again emotional roller coaster ride. She went from barely liking him 2 being in love 2 cheating on him with his good friend (which he found out about) all within a year. They have fist fights at least twice a week and curse each other out like dogs. Maybe he overlooks all of her many flaws because the sex is good. But the girl is suicidal. She often talks about killing herself and writes funeral instruction notices 2 her friends and family at least once a month. So why does he keep on dealing with her?

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  • 8 years ago
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    Yeah just stay out of it.

    It's probably a mental thing with your brother, he wants younger women maybe because he didn;t get women when he was younger or he wants to fix her.

    They COULD be in love and maybe they both overlook the things we all see as odd because they love eachother and want it to work out.

    But its probably the sex and she probably just wants to seem cool ya know dating an older man.

  • Naguru
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Let him wait till luck turns in his favor again. He should grab the right opportunity whenever it comes. In the meantime, let him pray honestly and sincerely with ardent devotion. Prayer does lot of wonders. Prayer gives moral strength, intellectual brilliance, divine wisdom, spiritual awareness and philosophical outlook. If your brother has that kind of strong willpower, indomitable courage, bull-dog determination and mental conviction, he can win over the whole world. Don't worry. Be always optimistic and rejoice life.

    Source(s): own.
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    As bad as it sounds you should stay out of the situation. Your brother is an adult and can make his own decisions wether they are good or bad. All you can do is give him advice and be there for him. I hope things work out for you :-)

  • DeAnne
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    good question. Maybe she's the only GF he could get? She desperately needs antidepressants. If I were him, I'd insist that she get some or he'll break up with her.

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