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Why won't people hang out with me?

I call these people friends, because they talk to me, let me hang in their circle, and play with me sometimes, but they all refuse to see me outside of school and sometimes they say mean things. Whenever I invite them out to movies or something they always say no, and its very blunt that its because its me. For example, I invited one to a movie and they said, "Um,no; I mean I'll probably see it, just not with you." I'm strange and everything, but I'm a 16 year old girl, what do they think I'm gonna do to them? Can't they see that I just wanna be friends?

I gotta admit, I'm very socially awkward and spontaneous, and I say some strange things, but I don't wanna go through high school and come out with my teenage years missing! When I go to college I wanna know how to make friends!

Please, help me!

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    It is probably time to make new friends. If your friends are treating you that bad, you shouldn't hang out with them anymore. A friend is someone who encourages and is kind towards you.

    Making new friends can be hard. But it's all about finding people who have similar interests and accept you for who you are.

  • 8 years ago

    Ditch that friend group. They dont like you. They let you hang out with them in school because they dont have the balls to tell you to leave them alone. Its gonna suck at first, but GET NEW FRIENDS. It might take you a little while, but there has to be someone you know to be friends with.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Find some other people who like u for who u r not for how u act... to help from being socialy awkward talk to different people who might have interests in the same things that you do maybe same taste in music or shows.

  • 8 years ago

    They don't hang out with you because, due to your strangeness, they don't think it will be fun. You should find people who like you for you, which can be very difficult, or change yourself

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  • 8 years ago

    If they want to do that to you just walk away and don't talk anymore find some new friends!Don't keep trying to make them like you it's not worth it!!:)

  • 8 years ago

    You are a loser....... don't worry dorks become popular in college

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