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People who keep telling your business to everyone.?

Okay this is the deal, some guy at the gym that I go to was telling me about this neighbor he live next to that come to find out worked with my father. Now the place that my dad worked at, he had a very high position. Every time the guy at the gym talks to someone who worked in that field he has to put my father’s name in the conversation like he knows my dad. Just the other day some guy was talking about applying in the same field as what my dad worked in for over thirty years, this guy at the gym tells the guy applying that my father worked there, his high position, and everything like that’s his business to tell. I don’t know these people at the gym like that I talk about sports, working out, and whatever else we might talk about. It’s like he can’t keep is damn mouth shut if I want someone to know my personal or family business I should be the one to tell them not him. I’m trying to be nice because this guy is up in age (60’s) but he tells everything like a gossiping *****. I don’t want to hurt his feelings but something has to be done next time he puts my dad’s business out there, any advice on how I should go about this matter.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    You should not tell any important thing to any one in his present.

  • Antst
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Well, it doesn't sound like he is saying anything personal. He is only talking about your father's work. This is publicly available information, right?

    My guess is that he is trying to be polite to you by showing respect for your father. And that he is trying to talk about something that you both have in common.

    If you do feel like he is too gossipy, don't tell him anything personal. But I wouldn't be offended by what you've described so far. Good luck.

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