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why do we forget everyone when we fall in love?

we give less importance to our friends, some times family too...

we want to do anything to get the one we love, we want to stay with them forever, give least importance to studies and job, more importance to texting and fb...

we dont think about anyone else except him..... why why why???

why do we give more importance to the new person we love by avoiding our family and friends and career??????

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    From your questions and narrations it always appear to me that your quite a wise girl who go deep in to the insight, thoughts and matters. In my opinion there is nothing like love alone it always carries some other emotions with it, moreover I should say that according to the love relation it has different potency of attraction, infatuation, liking, belief , faith, honor, respect and need. Your quesrtion is about one we love means some boy/girls/ guy/women. Love in between these persons is based on great attraction and infatuation. Hence, nothing ios looked to us when we fell in such kind of love. We forget, our family, friends, nears and dears and remember only one person to whom we love coz it gives us great happiness, enjoyment and so called infatuated love that leads us to physical contacts,(touches etc>) mental care and *** rather. Its the only reason why we feel having detached to all others for want of our love that we have with some one. Its why we are always away of studies, our job and always texting chatting on fb and some times meet in person if circumstances allow.Thank you.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I know what you mean, I had my eye set on a middle aged waitress named Betty down at the Old Country Buffet here in Des Moines for the longest time. Everytime she came to my table my heart got really warm and I felt butterflies. I finally built up the courage to ask her out, we've been together for 5 years now and couldn't be happier. She's much more masculine than me, she has the hands of a logger, this woman can split wood. She's the only person I think about anymore.

  • 8 years ago

    I've found this out the hard way, when you first meet some one its all new and exciting it's not more important to message them or be with them, its a rush every time you get a message its learning some thing new about some one you have deep feelings for! then you take the next step of moving in together and there fore spend even more time together then all of a sudden you realise ''hay I havn't seen my best friend for 3 weeks'' you arrange to meet and catch up the next thing you know they are now to in a relationship and in the same boat as you, trying to juggle work home and friends its hard... Only way around it is to keep arranging time as a couple and time with friends and Family :)

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    it's because once you find someone who you love you tend to put more emphasize on that person, because that person slowly becomes into a big part of your life so definitely we do forget everyone when we fall in love,sometimes it might not be the case but we are significantly more focused on our own relationships and thus ,neglecting everyone else and highlighting on our own relationship which are extremely important as it changes our lives.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    The thing is that person becomes center of your life.You give all it takes to make this person happy.You do not realize just how the time passed away and then other complain we are not giving them attention.You get too much immersed in one person.

    Well the solution is to set a time separate to talk with this person.

    Most people try to avoid such person as a part of solution.Never do that it will only make u feel worse.

    Discuss with the person about what time is best to talk with him and even time.Try to curb the temptation for the same.Well it difficult to hold on temptation from my personal experience but setting time with make justice with this person and other persons in life.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    hooked on a feeling it seems like most people this world is so full of disappointment and misery that when we get a good feeling we think its the kind of committed love that will last and it blinds us to many things and in certain circumstances is counter productive , but it is nice and if its compatible connection and its good as long as you can pull yourself out of it and do what needs to be done nothing wrong with it.....we cannot walk around suffering all day or just keeping busy it will destroy us

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Because of less knowledge about what young people call love.

    As they start to learn more then start to realize what is love, what are the types of love and what type of love should be given highest priority.

  • 8 years ago

    That is the power of love . thats why it said love is blind . when you are in love you forgot everything . once a famous poet said that love makes a person mad but sweet mad . but beauty of love is that it lasts only till marriage after that you cant expect same love like how you were before marriage . but few are lucky to hold that love even after marriage ...

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    If you have someone so precious to you, as in a sexual partner, they may be like a best friend and a lover to you, so you don't feel the need for anyone else.

  • 8 years ago

    Adrenaline.

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