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So I like this girl at work..but she's straight ?
I met a girl at work a couple of days ago, it was the first time we had worked together on the same shift but it was only like my second day. All she was really doing that day was just showing me the ropes of everything and helping me, but by the end of the night it had turned into a crush. She looks a little older than me (17-19 around there) and I don't know anything about her so I just call it a crush, I just think she's really really cute. Im trying not to obsess over it for the next few days cuz when I go back if we work together ill be more awkward and I'm also trying not to get too involved before I even know her.
So how should I approach this? Should I just keep my distance or should I hint around at it? I don't want a relationship with her cuz it's work related but that's not to say we couldn't be more than friends outside of work.
Also I'm bi and I think she might be straight but I'm not positive so how do I find out what she is without flat out asking?
Thanks
2 Answers
- Who I AmLv 58 years agoFavorite Answer
Don't fish around--You already said it's a work relationship and you don't plan on pursuing anything. If you're really curious, chat with her about friends/relationships though in a light way. It's still work and even if you become friends, you don't want to bring inappropriate conversation to your job.
- ?Lv 78 years ago
Ask around and see if she has ever had a boyfriend or told anyone that she is seriously interested in boys. Truly, though, the only way to find out with 100% certainty is to ask her yourself - possibly in place of or in conjunction with asking him out formally, and if not ask her if you wanna hang out and go out for a coffee or something sometime
If you have a gay friend whom you can trust, introduce them casually and then ask that gay friend what he thinks about her. I've had some gay friends and they can 'sniff' out guys or girls who are still closeted gays and they've been right so far.