How come girls/women like hot guys hitting on them even if they are known "players".?

It's flattering to know that someone attractive shows interest in you, even if he is the same flirty way to 500 other girls.

Usually women expect sympathy if anyone "hot"/"ugly" "bangs" her a few times and just dumps her. Not all attractive guys are like that, its just a common stereotype. So maybe she really didn't see it coming.

Girls have a fantasy of taming the wild. They want to be the one that makes him change his ways and stop playing around. If a normal guy hits on them, they normally aren't interested because he is not desired by many. It's more of a power struggle in all honesty. It's messed up but true. The girls will find that out when they get a little more mature. Right now, they want what others can't keep.

Being beautiful and a great partner are not mutually exclusive. In fact, it is just as shallow to assume that you are better off with an 'average' girl because her personality, loyalty and intelligence is going to be superior to that of an attractive woman. Look at the lot you get on the Jeremy Kyle Show- Ugly as sin and morally inept!

What would you do if a hot girl was hitting on you? It's flattering...even though the girl may know he's a player, it's flattering to know that of the many women out there, the player is flirting or hitting on them.

Kind of how I don't mind if straight or even unattractive men hit on me. I take no offense, I am flattered that that person thinks I am attractive enough speak to.

If you're in a small town, a last name usually matters. Chicks like guys with friends and money in that order. If you don't have enough of either, get lost...

Because it shows them that they are wanted, and have a higher social rank than those who aren't being hit on.