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Ok I have posted on here before about the situation with my pregnant ex girlfriend. Just for those who don't know we broke up a month ago im 26 she is 25 we never had problems before the pregnanc but any problems arouse were after she was pregnant. She will be 18 weeks this saturday and yesterday was the first day we saw each other since the break up. During this break up she has said she didn't feel the forever feeling with me but has gotten jealous a few times because she has known about a few girls wanting to get with me which I told her about when she talked to me but with how she reacted when she saw that these girls were interested in me threw me way off because she is the one that broke up with me and stated she doesn't care but then gets jealous. I have also told her I wanted to hang out again to build back up some type of relationship because we both don't know if this is the pregnancy or more. But she hung with me yesterday and I asked her about other times and she said she doesn't know because its weird since we broke up and she doesn't want me to get false hope of us being back together if this ends up being her true feelings and not the pregnancy anyone have a take on this.
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- 8 years ago
Well, pregnancy and hormones can make things difficult. Sometimes I think my husband is a gift from God for putting up with all of my crap. But that being said, I would focus on trying to become friends and get involved in her doctors appointments and help her to get excited about the baby coming. Around 20 weeks, she should be having a big ultrasound where you should be able to determine the gender. I would try not to talk about dating other people at this point. You both need to focus on being good parents and keeping her happy. That should cut down on the craziness! I hope that slowly, you can begin to repair your relationship, but if not, you two will have to figure out a way to co-parent and get along for the next 18+ years. I know it can be hard to bite your tongue, but sometimes, you just have to take one for the team (in this case, the well being of the baby). Take things one day at a time and don't worry about what will happen with YOUR relationship. Practice putting that baby 1st. Good luck!