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What would you do...survey...Cheating Husbands? Ladies in late twenties or early thirties answer please?

I am old and I admit it. Have things changed so much in this generation that a wife could really want a husband back that had cheated with at least a dozen women in seven years? She insists that she loves him yet has an ongoing "friendship" with a man who she met at church. She refuses to "date" him but wants to play sexual games with him at least once a month. She says she misses him, wants him around etc. but still says they are not in a dating relationship. Her ex asks her for sex almost weekly but she refuses because she said he only wants to use her. She tells the other guy he is just a "friend" but he has fallen hard for her. Could she still really be in love with her husband or does she have issues?

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    HAHAHAHAHA! Honeybunch, you don't now the first thing about "getting older"! Late twenties and early thirties is not "old." The face you see in the mirror has never been more beautiful, and your body, even after children, is fabulous. Wait, just wait, until the morning you see your first wrinkle, the first time you notice that your natual hair color has begun to fade and the skin around your eyes crinkles just a bit and doesn't snap back when you stretch it to put on your eye makeup. Those are body changes. Wait until you tire a bit sooner than your kids do and the "crack of dawn" is the sound your back makes when you get up in the morning. Wait until you start carrying a wrinkle emollient stick in your makeup bag next to your lipgloss. Wait until you start buying moisturizer in the large economy size. THEN you can talk to me about aging. You will never be this young again, and you are very, very beautiful just the way you are. You know so much more than you did five years ago, but not as much as you will know five years from now. You will learn you can survive anything, so problems become less important. Every stage in your life is a journey. The destinations aren't important, but the trip should be a blast! Your body and mind will change so much every day. I have a couple of secrets for you: getting old has its advantages. Life becomes infinitely easier and more fun. YOU become smarter; sex gets better. Father Time may be taking over, but Mother Nature is a woman. She won't let you down. Here's two more: if you smoke, STOP. It's not just for your health, it's for your looks. Women who smoke eventually look much older than they really are. They'll deny it but it's true. And for God's sake, stay out of the sun and don't tan. Not for nothing do you hear that all the time. Stop freaking out over nothing. Enjoy your life now. Every day is a blessing!!!!

  • 8 years ago

    People like you two keep me in business with advice. Look....your such a good example of jumping ship I can't imagine anyone better!!! Trust is like the key ingredient of any good loving marriage. If you lose it....it's like a house with no foundation under it. Trust gives you hope and respect in the relationship. When I lost that I divorced my husband ...I didn't just stick in there playing house like you.

    By saying "friendship" with another person is like putting sugar on a dog turd. It's still a dog turd ok?

  • 8 years ago

    whats the question

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I don't even understand the question.

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  • bull
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    GET LOST

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