Can someone read this and help me please! I really need it and feel so confused about what to do?

This is a classic cheater move. On his part, not yours. I have no doubt in my mind that he either has cheated, is presently cheating, or has something lined up. Here is why I believe this so firmly:

First off, he started a fight about nothing, and then it led to a breakup. This, or imposing a "break", often means that the partner in question wants to try someone new on for size. But if it doesn't work, they can just back-pedal and say "oops, didn't mean it that way". But let's face it. If he wanted to be single for a night, that's the perfect way. He gets to do whatever, and has this loophole he created, so it's not technically cheating.

Second, he went through your phone. Why would he do that? why would he go digging through your information, and feel the need to invade your privacy? If he wasn't up to something, he wouldn't be scrutinizing you, looking for reasons to be mad at you. Make no mistake about it. When he went into your phone, while you were asleep, he went there looking for a fight.

Third, he laid down the ultimatum. That threat that things are over if he finds out you told one more lie. He's basically trying to get whatever he can, with extremely selfish motives, while the two of you are still together. I would imagine that right now, you are walking on eggshells, so to speak, trying not to do anything to upset him. You are likely doing everything he demands of you, and playing as nice as you can, hoping to get past this.

So, what to tell him about Mr. Mofo? You are under no obligation to tell him. At least as far as you knew, the two of you were broken up. Even if you had slept with him, it wouldn't have mattered. You were under no obligation to him at that point. There was probably a part of you that was worried you'd never see him again. Just because he later tells you that the breakup wasn't real, it doesn't change the fact that it was very real to you.

In the end, it sounds like this relationship's days are numbered. Frankly, it's due to him playing stupid games that's caused it to be in this state. You are trying your best to be a good girlfriend. You were using a backup facebook as a photo gallery, possibly because you didn't know about sites like Photobucket. Hopefully, you have those photos saved elsewhere. (Even if you deleted them, they might still be recoverable. Just take your computer to any computer shop, and ask them to recover any deleted photos. Unless you make heavy use of your hard drive space, most of the data should still be there.) But he had no right to decide that these photos were his to delete.

So, what to do?

I would start by standing up to him. Right now he's bullying you. Your stance should be that he violated your trust. Your phone is your business, and had he asked you to let him look through it, you probably would have. And if he had just asked about the second profile, instead of immediately blowing up at you and demanding the password, you probably would have told him what it was. There's a huge difference between something never coming up in conversation, and you being a horrible cheating person who deserves a confrontation.

I would tell him that the way he's treating you is awful. That you did nothing to deserve this, and that it's him that's being a jerk to you, not the other way around. Reinforce the fact that if you had been cheating on him, he would have found ample evidence. That you are someone who sucks at covering your tracks, and frankly it would be pointless to cheat, simply because of that.

Do not let him turn this back around on you. He is the one who broke up with you, and told you to get out. You took him at his word, and did what he demanded. Anything after that fact is none of his business. Even if he does find out about that guy, just tell him you two were broken up at the time, and since nothing happened that night, other than talking, there's nothing to report.

Just know that this conversation might end up with a breakup. But if it does, just know that he likely had plans to break up with you anyway, and was trying to get something out of you before he dropped the hammer. But if he actually cares about the relationship, and just wants to get past this, he will back off.

I would say that in the future, try and be a little more upfront about secret profiles and such. Though I do stress that you did nothing wrong. You may try contacting facebook, and asking if they have any way of recovering the deleted photos. Facebook makes backups of everything you post online, and keeps them even if you delete them. So I would be surprised if there is nothing they can do for you.

And that's the best advice I can give.

Although you did nothing wrong, I understand where your boyfriend is coming from. If I found out that after a huge argument my boyfriend went over to his girl friends house I would go crazy and I'm not going to lie I would accuse him of cheating. I'd be angry at first but once I gave him the chance to explain to me why he did it and what really happened, I'd believe him and calm down.

You can do two things, either tell him the truth. Or leave it be. He may not contact this Jack person. Maybe he's just angry about you not telling him about this other account you had, maybe it will all blow over in a few days just give it time. But I agree with the first answer, there's nothing wrong staying at a friends, it's just the way you did it, after an argument with your boyfriend.

If it were me I would not tell him. I'd just wait it out to see if he does contact this person but most likely he will calm down and get over this.

For your boyfriend to delete your pictures that meant something to you was selfish of him. If seeing pictures of you and your ex hurt him he should of only of deleted them ones of you both (I would of deleted pictures of my boyfriend and his ex too if I ever come across them) not the whole album of your family too. But I do understand where he's coming from. From the way it looks it looks like you were up to something. But hopefully he will calm down over the next few days and things will be back to normal in no time. :)

spending a night at someone's place is not cheating...you did nothing wrong....how could you know the man is psychotic and will start inventing crazy stories....you should tell your bf, but problem here is that he is acting like a prison guard and being disrespectful without any reason, i would not trust him to trust you if he ever heard about stupid lies that other guy is inventing...to erase the pics that meant something to you, why else did you keep them, is disrespectful, he is not Auschwitz and you are not his jew...he cannot treat you that way...that is not a realtionship it's a nazi prison camp....of course you will have problems if some idiot makes up stories....

if i had penny for every time a guy invented some crazy scenario in whichc he had sex with me, a guy i find utterly un-shagable. and would not shag if he was the last man on earth, or a guy i met once at a party and we shook hands and i left and forget he existed, i'd be a rich woman, and if my man will trust every schmo dreaming of shagging me and inventing stories over me...that relationship is doomed...

the psychotic fake friend is the least of your problems now, your bf is acting like gestapo, that is a major red flag...

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I think u should tell ur boyfriend. Seriously, what's a relationship without trust? Just sit him down one day and tell him the entire story. If I believe u and don't even know u then he should have no problem believing u too.