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He Just Stopped Talking To Me? (Repost)?

I'm reposting because they had downtime last night so I'm figuring no one saw this. Anyway, I've been talking to this guy I met online for about a month now. He works A LOT so he's super busy but we've been out on a couple of dates, and they both went really well! In the most recent one we went to see a movie and he was holding my hand and laying on me, that kind of thing. Like, his actions say he likes me, but when I'm not with him I don't know what to think! I've been driving myself insane wondering if he is really interested or not, or if he is just really bad at communicating? I asked him a few weeks ago flat out if he was interested, and he said that he is, he's just busy. But now I haven't heard from him in about a week, so I'm thinking is he really busy, not much of a texter, or should I just let it go? I heard guys are not as big on texting as girls are, but wouldn't that vary from person to person? I'm not sure if that's true...:/ And I've initiated contact before, tried to keep it on an equal basis, but I'm worried about coming off desperate or clingy if I say anything at all. I'm trying to think of anything I could've done or said that was wrong, but anything I did/said was playing along with him, so I don't know what the deal is. What do you think is going on and what should I do?? I can live with the fact that he's not interested, I just want to know what happened. I want to ask him if he wants to do something on the Fourth, that I way I'll know for sure, but I came here before I mess up and say something stupid. Please help me. Thank you.

Update:

Okay, thank you so much guys. He texted me today and I'm so glad I didn't get crazy with it or I would have looked like an idiot! Apparently he lost his bag at the airport from a business trip and didn't get it back until today, so everything is good. I appreciate your help! Thank you. (:

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  • 8 years ago
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    You didn't do nothing wrong sweety its just him.he told you that he is always busy cause he works and than hes tired you know?meaby its not that into you but this is not a problem.dont text him to interrupt or push him reply you.just give him time and he will call you.i havent talk with my bf 2 weeks and im like you too but i have not what to do just wait till they remember us lol.why you dont call him when you know he is not working and meet him.i hope it works.

  • 8 years ago

    Your right about the texting part, but even if a guy is busy he should take the time to contact you and I think saying your busy is a cop out. I would call him and leave a message and let it go at that. Busy or not, he needs to show you that he's still interested.

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