I need help,because this is too much to handle and I'm ashamed to admit it..?

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So when someone says they "Broken-hearted" you'll first think I'm a wild teenager who's too emotional and gets attached to people easily and give me the basic advice about being mature.
But no..I'm a really strong girl,I carry myself well and I love myself to a point that i dont allow people to hurt me..

2 months ago,he told me he loved me..i was tipsy but my mind was SOBER,i admitted that I'm scared from relationships bcz I'm scared of being hurt..he promised he won't and asked me to try.
2 days ago we were discussing how happy we are together,he told me he's missing me too much and isn't able to focus on anything(he has exams on Wednesday) bcz he's thinking about me,and he doesn't understand how we got this madly in love in such a period of time.
yesterday at night we broke up..bcz he's scared of how much he's attached to me and he's never felt this way before..

I'll say this and try not to feel stupid..I CAN'T TAKE IT.
i want him,i was so happy with him..I can't stand seeing him and not hugging him..
My friend told me to wait until he's done with exams ,maybe he'll think straight then..But i think waiting does me unfair..should i move on simply?should i try more?
tmrw my summer officially starts,i'm scared i'll drink and mess up..
I'm totally lost and this is not normal to me..please help,i NEED advice on how to feel better..
besides my reaction towards this break up is coming out as anger on all those around me..I'm usually nice,but i've been hurting and criticising and being mean like crazy..
HELP..?Thanks..

Noah · Accepted Answer

The first thing you have to do is realize that there is no magic trick that will immediately make you feel like everything is fine. Time is the greatest medicine in this situations but you can get better if you accept that you're feeling extremely heartbroken and give yourself time to heal. Don't depend on the fact that he might change his mind. You also have to decide whether you want to try and get him back or move on. Because you can't do both at the same time

Alysha · Answer

Tell him how you feel. Say that you feel just as scared of these feelings as he is, but together you can take it slow and work your way through it. You're young and you don't need to rush anything at all.
Admit your feelings to him, don't pressure him too much or be too overwhelming about it.
Say you miss him, you miss getting to at least be around him.

Even if you don't get back together right away, just as long as you can hang out together and make a fresher start, move onto the hugs again. 

As for the drinking, just tone it down or stop. That will make it easier.

Anonymous · Answer

Honey, you're a teenager. Boyfriends come and go. It seems like the end of the world, but its not. And if you're worried about doing something stupid whilst your drunk, don't drink. Its as simple as that.

? · Answer

This is like some kind of Twilight thing. Wow, tell him you love him just as much as he loves you and it hurts you to be way from him. Tell him you miss his hugs.

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I need help,because this is too much to handle and I'm ashamed to admit it..?

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