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why do i feel so guilty, and sad?
i met a guy 5 years ago, who i fell in love with. he likes me but as a friend, so i didn't say anything and i didnt tell him how i feel. i accepted the fact, and became friends, good friends.
last year he introduced me to his sister (she used to live out of town), so i took advantage of her, to make her brother fall in love with me. i didnt play any tricks or anything, i just treated her like a sister of mine, and helped her with everything, and i told her that am in love with her brother, she was happy about that, and said that she will help, but all she had done was embarrass me, and took advantage of me, and my plan backfired at me.
the thing here is that she is a very stupid person, and so talkative, i made her love me so much that she relies on me with everything, she became attached to me and i am really sick of her.
she is completely helpless, and cant do anything on her own, and keeps bugging me with stupid things, and never stops talking about really silly things, and includes me in every ugly situation she gets in.
so i made a decision to stop talking to her, and i had to travel for work so i changed my number, and didnt give her nor her brother my new number. i feel so guilty, that have hurt her, made her love me and then walked away, and then tried to use her. and i feel really sad that i wont talk to him again, and i know that he will forget about me without even feeling slightly sad, and i kno that he is not thinking of me the same way i do to him.
what should i do? should i give her my new number, suck it up. or is it hopeless, should i get over him?. am i a bad person?
3 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
Well, if you think that there is a very definite chance that he will fall in love with you then give him your number. But I doubt it takes someone 5 years to figure out they love someone. I honestly suggest that you move on. There are plenty of other guys and I am sure you'll meet someone great one day. Don't rely on him thinking that he might love you. If you're meant to be you'll meet again someday but I honestly suggest you move on. Like you said, if you dont talk he will forget about you with out being slightly sad that means he doesn't love you. Sorry, if I was being blunt and this hurt you but its better to move on now then later when your feelings for him get deeper. I say this a perfect chance for you to start a new. Good luck and I hope this helps :)
- ?Lv 78 years ago
When life gives you something that makes you feel flabbergasted.
That is when life gives you a chance to make a wise decision.
Obstacles can't stop you. Problems can't stop you. Most of all ..... other people can't stop you.
The only person who stops you is yourself.
Be yourself ! People may or may not like you.
But it is important, stay true to who you are.
A clear rejection is better than a fake promise.
Never regret the things you have done. You just regret the things you didn't do when you have the chance.
An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backward. When life is dragging you back with difficulties, just imagine that it is going to launch into something great.
Failure in any thing is simply an opportunity to begin again, and this time with lessons learned.
Your smile is priceless !!!
- Anonymous8 years ago
you must feel that she is interested in you or not. if she is also involve in you then you should purpose her for marraige.
