How to deal with a consistent liar?

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I've been friends with this girl for about six months now, and before we became friends I knew she lied a lot out of habit, usually to make herself seem more important. I started hanging out with her anyway, but now I think it's gotten out of hand. She brags about fighting a lot and always winning, although I have never seen her fight nor have I ever known any of the girls she claims to have fought. She has a temper (she fought a girl for liking her boyfriend apparently). It seems I can never get the truth out of her, and right now it's crucial because I think she has something against me (I don't know what it is) and we're going to meet to talk about things. But my question is, what should I do? I'm sick of going along with her lies and recently I just haven't said anything when she lies about things. Every time I try to confront her she gets defensive and I'm worried she'll try to fight me. I refuse to fight back because I don't believe in violence. Should I avoid her completely and cut off any ties or should I try to work it out?

Cathal · Answer

Go up to her. Give her a left jab to the gut without saying a word. Finish her off instanly when her guard is down by striking the right hand across her jaw. This will knock her out. If not, she'll be on the ground. (They never suspect the left jab.) 
   "I'm sick and tired of yo' damn bullshit, mothafucka!"
Proceed to pop a cap in her fat ***. Walk away with Swag!

Chantelle · Answer

if she really is that violent and horrible just stay away from her but if shes lying about it and shes not actually violent you could just try talking to her cause she probably lies about everything to make herself feel better and more important, i dont know how close to her you are but if your not really that close then you might as well just go along with her lies instead of try to start an argument cause if she wants to lie why not its up to her as long as shes not actually doin anyone any harm but if your actually really close friends and it upsets you that she cant be honest with you, you shouldnt confront her just try an let her know she can trust you an you'll still like her even if she doesnt beat people up all the time and that you actually like her for herself.

Kevin · Answer

The way to deal with it is to NOT DEAL WITH IT, I've had friend who were liars, I cut them off and find new ones..

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a guy but I don't do high maintenance...if a guy or a girl is a jackass I just don't hang around them.

Anonymous · Answer

never talk to them again treat them like their not here 
Do not react to anything they says they are just jelous and they get bored if you don't react don't react.

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