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He told me he loved me when he was drunk?

I've been in an on and off friends with benefits relationship with this guy for a year. Recently I've decided to move on. I told him I was in love with him in order to do that so that I could get everything off my chest and not live with the what ifs. The day after I told him he got hammered drunk and called me to drive him home. I drove him home and in the car ride there, he told me that he loves me but can't say when he's sober because he doesn't know how to deal with his emotions or whatever. I told him that I didn't believe him because he was drunk and if he can't tell me if he's sober then he doesn't at all. The next day he didn't remember anything and I told him what he said and he never replied. Could he be telling the truth or bullshitting me?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I've never really dealt with anyone who has been so drunk that he can't remember what he said until recently. I'm not sure what to tell you. I take people at their word because what they say while drunk could be how they really feel because they are uninhibited verses when they are sober and a bit more reserved.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I think he's telling the truth.

    Either that or being drunk has brought out his inner feelings that he may not have know of when he was sober. I find that when I get drunk I love everyone a lot more :P

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