Is having sex with friends ok?

Everyone is being assholes about it, but honestly loosing your virginity aint no joke. It's not as great as media makes it to be or your friends. It's just sex after it happens and you're gonna regret it because I know lots of people who said they wish they had waited for someone special. I'm getting married and I'm still a virgin and I'm waiting until our wedding night. Personally that was the best choice because now you can share it with someone you know you will be with for a very long time. Also, in this society, the easier it is for men to get sex from your, the less they want you. Harsh truth, but it is what it is. When you're rare, you're more likely to find someone who has the same values as you and you guys can have special moments together. But, your life is your life and just because you have sex doesn't mean you wont find love, it just makes you typical.

Well, in general, yeah. I just recently (2 days ago) lost my virginity to one of my friends who I've liked for about 6 years. All I would say is that sex is something you need to be ready for. You may want to have sex but you just may not be ready. I clearly wasn't and it was a very rushed and sneaky thing. It was not good at all and I think out friendship may be permanently ruined. Only time will tell. Having casual sex with a friend is okay as long as both people are comfortable with it and ready and safe. The guy I did it with was kind of a douchebag to begin with so it was pretty awkward, considering I had never even had my first kiss, and he had done about everything other than legitimate sex. I completely regret it. Just know that you may regret it, and that you need to prepare for it. :)

No it is not OK. You should only lose it when you find someone you really love and have a good relationship with. Not just with a friend. That is so not cool. You should get to know someone well first and not just do it to do it with anyone.

Um wow. That's all I can say wow. ( clap clap) um I guess if u really love him/ her. I mean losing ur virginity is a special thing I mean u have feel sparks with that person it's important for ur first time to be special. That's just my opinion.

Well, one certainly wouldn't expect you to have sex with enemies!

It's wrong to have sex if your only friends. Sorry, that's just what I think. But it's your choice.

Why don't you guys date then? Lol

no

okay