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Gender makes me unable to attract my type. What do I do?
I'm attract to straight girls and talented musical theatre guys (the majority of which are gay). But, I am a girl, and I am far from a butch. I know that there are a lot of lesbians who aren't butch, but a lot of them are attracted to butches. And, when I see a girl I like, I normally stay away because she's probably straight and if I approach her, I'll offend the girl, and get gossiped about. When I see a guy perform and I like him, I approach him, tell him I like him, and then he tells me he's gay.
I know I'm not ugly, because I try to stay away from ug. I've even had some straight guys crush on me, but they were ugly, so maybe I might be too.
I must admit that I do tend to be a little aggressive and to the point when I purse relationships, but I personally would like that in a person, I don't wanna play the dating game.
What do I do about it??? Do I have to pretend to be more masculine??? Will I ever be able to get a desirable person???
4 Answers
- Anonymous8 years agoFavorite Answer
Being butch is not going to get you an attractive GF. Just be who you are and you will find a nice girl who is beautiful. You can't expect every good looking girl is looking for a butch because they aren't.
- 8 years ago
From the sound of it, you seem to still be in highschool?
If so, you don't really have many places other than school to meet people and being attracted to more feminine people which seems to be the case is difficult because it's really hard to "spot" femmes from straight girls but as a femme myself, they are out there. You can't really ATTRACT them until you're out and people know about your orientation. Though in highschool, if you don't feel safe being out I wouldn't recommend it. It does get easier though. As for feminine men, well I don't have much experience in that area, sorry.
It sucks but trust me, being out really helps with getting girls ;)
- Anonymous8 years ago
Be urself, I have an adorable guy friend in theatre who is straight!:) and maybe u should find a bi girl! Some of them look straight and like girls who look straight! Or a pansexual someone! Or a transgender!
- 8 years ago
love yourself and people will love you. Have confidence and people will have confidence in you. believe in yourself and people will believe in you. most clearly be yourself
Source(s): a wise kid my age told me that
