Why is does he say he will text/call back later but doesnt?

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my guyfriend /crush has been doing this a lot latley, which is not normal for him because he usually would text me every hour of the day. i thought i was annoying him so i tried to text him once every one or two weeks.   i texted him askin if he wanted to hang out but he just said he couldnt and that he will call me later but then he never called, so i just ignored it and desided to leave him alone for a while. i  texted him three weeks llater and  he gave me the same response and never called back again. is he mad at me or am i annoying him?

maggy · Accepted Answer

hi
maybe he busy or you could be annoying him no text him till he text u 
maggy

~Danielle~ · Answer

I had this problem with a friend before.  When I tried to give them their space, they thought I was mad so they kept their distance even when I did try to get in touch, and the less we talked, the worse it got, and 7 years later we ended up talking, and figured out how stupid the whole thing was, and now we're back to normal. 

I think you need to lay out everything, and actually come out and ask him what's up, because you never know where he is on his end of things, and if he's thinking what you are, but about you, and it's not talked out, it's just going to get worse, and who knows if you'll ever work it out?  So text him and ask him why he's being so distant, and why he suddenly has no time for you, and see if you can fix it.  Doing nothing and not talking to him is not a good strategy... trust me, i've lived it lol

Connor · Answer

There is nothing confusing, complicated, or secret about men. We live and communicate with no special code. Women need to stop turning everything into this big huge complicated mess. 
He isn't calling you because he doesn't want to. If he wanted to date you, he would ask you out. Your friendship doesn't mean much or anything to him if he never contacts you on his own. 
Sorry but that is just the way things are. It hurts and it sucks, but it also happens to everyone. We fall for people who don't want us. 
Just don't dilute yourself into thinking he wants you but he's just being all "code-like" about it. 

It is, what it is.
Read the book "He's Just Not That Into You"

-Connor

? · Answer

It has nothing to do with you. He lost interest, and is hoping you will get the point by him ignoring you.
It's pretty much because he is too spineless to simply say, I found someone else, I am not interested in you, etc.

. · Answer

This belongs in Friends, not Marriage & Divorce...

We don't know how he feels...we cannot read his mind...if you text someone and they don't reply, then that should tell you they have nothing to say...

? · Answer

he's not into you

he has someone new

I would not call or text him again and I would change some social media and move forward for you because you're worth it

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