Am I straight, Lesbian, or Bisexual?

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Look ever since August of 2012 I have been doubting my sexuality. It is really getting me depressed till the point where i cant even socialize like i used to. Look I know porn isnt the ideal way to determine your sexuality, so dont tell me just because I like lesbian porn makes me Bisexual or Lesbian. I talked to my mom about this and she is amazing, so if I turned out to be lesbian i would be perfectly fine, she supports equal rights and has gay friends. My mothers tells me she went through this to and that I am a teenager and that it is completely normal and that from what she has seen of me I have always liked/wanted to be with boys.Now you may be asking why am doubting my sexuality. Look I went to counseling because of this but the paranoia wont leave me.  

Here are the reasons why I think I am a lesbian:
- I get turned on by women in porn ( Mom told me this was normal)
- Sometimes fantasize about them
- Did not feel sparks with my first bf
- Men dont turn me on in sex scenes, for example Magic Mike

Reasons why I think I am straight:
- I have always liked boys
- Would cry to my mom because the guy i liked had a girlfriend
- Fantasized about boys, especially my first bf
- Feel butterflies when i saw my crush
- Would freak out if my celeb crush would appear on television


Look I may seem ridiculous but the paranoia wont leave and I seriously do not want to experiment. 
When I had my first bf I was going through a lot of family isuues so it distracted me, but I would always feel dizzy after we kissed and when we broke up I was super jealous when he would flirt with a girl.

Basically my paranoia wont leave me, before all of this sexuality issues i  fantasized about men only and it turned me on. Before this sexuality issue i never though about girls that way But now girls turn me on to. If I had to have sex with a girl It would have to be someone I dont know because just the though of doing my female friends repulses me.


I know I have nothing to be afraid of, since I have a loving mother. But I just want to know.

stacy · Accepted Answer

You sound bi or bi-curious since you always loved boys :)

? · Answer

I think since you separated with your bf you never had a chance to get another one and I think the anger you got after separating whatever cause was it made you to lose interest in boys but still having feelings with girls is also normal but my worry is that you have indicated that if you are to do sex, it should be with someone you don't know! For how long will you be getting these people that you don't know? I think you have to redirect your sexual feelings and try to find yourself the right sexual life, if girls let it be girls without ifs or buts.

? · Answer

okay look im a teenager .... ill be honest .... i question my sexuality too frfr because sometimes i see a girl and ill check her out and if i watch porn i get turned on too (like ill get wet) lol weird ik :/ but its because im curious i believe all girls do it ... i mean some girls in porn are just too sexy !! and guys bodys look kind of weird .. a girls body looks wayyyyy better... but girl it doesnt matter what you are... hell!! if you like girls and boys owell .. who cares !! and if you wanna find out if your lesbian just try to kiss another lesbian and test youself to see if you like it  ... if you do you may be lesbian and dont feel bad if you are because thats just what you like and F anyone who has a problem with it ..

Anonymous · Answer

Lol your straight

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