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Has my girlfriend been raped?
When she was 12, she drank a lot (she came from a very unstable home).
She had sex at that point but didn't find out until two weeks later. She said she wasn't even interested in sex at that point. It's made her feel violated, insecure and needy.
She had a drink problem at that point and had sex with 6 different guys over the next year- which she all came to regret. I believe she was taken advantage of completely, but she has the view that she was "a bit", but only a bit. I think she's in denial though, mostly for the reason that she can't remember any of it and she regrets it all, to the point of developing an eating disorder.
babyblue- that is pretty judgmental. She was 12, unstable, and had a drink problem. Most adults can't "just quit" in that kind of situation.
Be careful of what you judge, because you might end up becoming it in the future, and I speak from personal experience.
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- Anonymous8 years agoFavorite Answer
She sounds like she was raped. She has the signs. Research into it. She needs to go to a therapist and get help. Be that protective person in her life that she looks up to when in trouble. Dont pressure her in sex or anything just incase but you seem really sweet that you care so much. Many rape victims turn to drinking so i wouldnt be surprised if she was raped.
Source(s): I wish you and her the best - ?Lv 48 years ago
WTF.
Your girlfriend was drunk and spread her legs and now it's some poor guys fault...love the logic.
Quick, call Injury Lawyers4U. She'll get Legal Aid to sue, you will never have to work again.
I wouldn't question it if it was a one off, but since you state that she had it with 6 guys over a year period......
If you have any itching down there it might be the time to visit the clinic.
- ColinLv 48 years ago
You will never know unless you ask her the question.People remember everything,its can just be deeply buried in her mind.Tell her if you ever want to talk about anything that you are always their for her and give her a hug.
- 8 years ago
well if she regrets it all then her *** shouldn't been drinking after the first time it happen.
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