He says he will kill himself if we break up?!?

smfh, my bestfriends boyfriend does the same bullshit. Its insane, its as if he's holding you hostage. This isn't pysical abuse, but it is abuse. You're in an abusive relationship. He could get in a ton of trouble for this, though I know you wouldn't want him to. Call a suicide hotline and give them his number, they'll call him. Break up with him and if he says he's killing his self, tell him not to bother, that the cops are already on their way to his house. If he can threaten you, you can do the same.

Firstly, your life and happiness is way more important than his.

Thank God he had been acting like this before he proposed marriage to you; had you said yes, you would be in a greater world of trouble. If he is thinking of killing himself over this situation now, he doesn't have a hope in life or out in the real big bad world.

Don't worry about him as you can't control his actions; he's an attention seeker. Big deal..he scratched his wrists and went to hospital; what a coward and wasting medical facilities and staff time. Hopefully he can be an organ donor if he does kill himself properly; he can make a positive difference there and give life to someone who truly deserves and wants it more than he does.

The Bible says, "Those who hate their life will keep and those who love their life will lose it."

Leave this guy immediately; you've been subjected to enough psychological and emotional abuse, not to mention having been used as a 'security blanket'.

If you truly want to break up with him, you wouldn't care what happens to him after you leave him.

Put the problem back on his mother's lap and get out of there then move on with your life and hopefully into the arms of a more deserving and appreciative guy.

Good luck!

Cheers.

Oh lord. This is so him crying out for attention. The chances he actually will kill himself over your breakup are very slim. He's only saying this so that you stay with him. Maybe it's a good thing you are going to break up with him because he seems mentally unstable. Tell him to get some professional help (in a nice way) and get out of there as quick as possible!

He's emotionally blackmailing you. That does not make for a healthy relationship, much less a marriage. What I would do, is tell a member of his family - preferably his mother, if she's around. That will both embarrass him, when his own mother hears how he is trying to manipulate you, and will mean it is not "your responsibility" to make sure he doesn't do anything silly. Good luck.

I don't really know how to tell you how to handle that. My dad is pretty messed up and went to many places. And i'm his son. He uses me to keep going. I would try to stay friends and help him out. But thats all i got. Sorry miss. I don't know.

he says he wants to get married and I said no.

Now follow up on that and tell him it over gone finished

And go meet someone that isn't a manipulator.

Explain to him if he really loved you he'll let you go or if not ask for a break between you too just to sort your heads out

okay this is what you have to do girl first you have to really talk to him ask him why if you guys break up he wants to kill himself and get him really golm and just make him trust you and be by his side mybe you will start liking him {just get him calm} dont worry i know what im talkimg about there is not a violent relationship that i have not been through

I think if you should tell his Mom or Dad that he should get some help ? Or maybe if he has any sibling talk to them? Preferably OLDER siblings ... He seems mentally unstable

Tell him Face says : Hi. ur an idiot cuz u had such a beautiful and considerable girlfriend which u r not grateful with.